I’m writing to you because what I have to say is easier to type rather than discuss over the phone. I think we need time apart. Lately, I’ve been thinking about many things that have been going on with my life. When I got around to thinking about you, I thought about how things have changed so much from August to this very day. It has been very pleasant getting to know you. Furthermore, it has been very refreshing to share many moments with you, and I loved our conversations.
However, despite all of these things, I’m between a rock and a hard place. Believe me when I say that I know the importance of friendship. We will always be friends. Right now, I’m still smitten over you and it gets harder and harder to forget about a future with you ever again. I regret treating you that way that I have. Honestly, my feelings have not changed, not at all. We both are very busy people, but it’s hard to not think about you, hard not to wonder what is going on with you. I don’t know if you had someone else in mind to be with, nor do I think I can handle it. And this is why I’m thinking that we should not talk for a little while.
I don’t want to hold on to something that was perhaps never there, or be the one that is upset because you decided to move on to someone who truly makes you happy. I know that in a lot of ways, it probably is not possible for us to have a relationship at all. I’m probably the last person that you even think of most of the time.
Being with you and all of the good times that we had is preparing me well for the future of more things to come. It hurts me to even write this, but I have to deal with the fact that you are not returning, so this is what I have to do.
If you feel the need to, then call me. But if you have no interest and do not wish to contact me ever again, I understand fully. I don’t want to hold you up with anything and I’m sorry to tell you this and you have so much more going on with your life to even give me any thought.
2007-01-18 11:40:03 · 10 answers · asked by mochaflavoredmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you the letter writer? I have a feeling that you are..... If so, you are sounding desperate to get this guys' attention and to make him feel guilty for only wanting to be friends. Don't be so desperate...move on with your life, he just wants to be friends.
2007-01-18 11:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by ksgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the girl who wrote this letter is trying to play a head game with you. She is wanting you to say " no I think about you all the time and i don't want anyone else..." you know how women can be.. I am a woman so I am not bashing or anything. I just hate it when these women try to play games and then get mad and upset when the man doesn't do what they expected. Anyway if she is doing this now, it will probably only get worse as time goes on. Let her go...good luck
2007-01-18 11:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
As I read that letter I kept on wondering what on earth you did that prompted such a letter. It is obvious the girl who wrote it is in love with you and hurting because you are apparently pushing her away. If you have any feelings for her at all, call her and ask her to come to your place or go to her place. Tell her what is in your heart. There is a misunderstanding involved here I can feel it. Put her at peace, one way or another.
2007-01-18 11:55:26 · answer #3 · answered by rotodogman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmmm.....
I'm thinking I wouldn't do anything.
Not enough information to know what kind of relationship this was. Was it friendship? An affair? A summer romance?
I get that this person isn't sure what it was, either? Do you know what it was? I don't know what it was, either.
I believe I'd let well enough alone.
2007-01-26 09:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, today I don't feel like reading very long questions, so I just read the beginning and the end and you know what I think? I think that you should just forget about that person because if he/she didn't have the courage to tell you that personally, it means that he/she never really care about you. Good luck.
2007-01-18 11:50:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i despatched a digital mail to a band once and they spoke back..yet i dont deliver letters to favourite ppl..it would want to be ineffective..that only makes your letter yet another peice of paper in a tremendous pile which will in reality be study in case you're really fortunate!!lol
2016-11-25 19:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaaaaaaaawwww the classic "i'm breaking up because i think you want to move on" break up excuse. wow havent seen those in a long time. he is dumping you cause he wants to. please understand that. men are not selfless when it comes to a woman they want and desire more than life itself. so he's "letting you go" because he thinks you probably are moving on anyway...well that's BS. no man gives up a woman he wants without a fight. no hun you got the "pass the blame" break up letter. he was to cowardly to say that he just doesnt want to date you anymore. and so he turned it around to say he's doing this because he senses YOU want to move on. so do yourself a world of good and move on...guys like him will never ever own up to their feelings, their faults, their dreams ...etc. they're to cowardly to say what they mean.
2007-01-18 11:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay.. first of all that was way too long. i only read half of it? and secondly.. talking from experience. you NEVER break up with a girl over the phone, letter, text msg.. anything. if you have something to say.. you say it to her face. that just makes it not as bad? idk.. just saying..
2007-01-18 12:07:54 · answer #8 · answered by chyeah... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick this person to the CURB.
2007-01-26 11:08:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take time apart
2007-01-26 11:34:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋