Ok so there is this guy I have been checking out who I think he is cute. He seems older than me but I realized that he is shy and gets nervous when I am around and I feel the same way. I am shy so it's hard for me to break the ice with someone I like.
I have noticed that he is talking with people I talk to when he didn't talked to anyone in the first place.
Is that a sign that he likes me? How can I feel comfortable and talk to him?
2007-01-18 11:35:56 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Try farting .. LOL
No .. for real though ... Just dont be afraid to do things. Look for something that you have in common with him. Like that conversations will last longer. Look him in the eye .. actually stare at him so that he can wonder if you like him. Your not saying so therefor you wont embarrras your self and wont get rejected. If you notice that he likes you too then you can tell him.
By the way .. him talking to someone else can be a sign that he does like you ... you making him do things that he does not normaly do.
and dont drink beer to make the nerves go away .. it may make you do something stupid .. LOL
2007-01-18 11:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by talent4god 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The things we fear in life are the things that make us grow and become better people. the first step is the hardest but you need to step up to the plate and take a big swing even if you strike out you have a little bit more experience.
Plan on striking out that way it is not a let down when you do however if you get on base you will have great joy
plan for the worse and hope for the best
2007-01-18 11:43:32 · answer #2 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask around about what types of things interest him. Maybe you can figure out what common ground you two share and go off of that. It might be a bit difficult at first, but once you find that topic you are both farmilar with, things will start falling into place. Or, go to a movie together, and then you'll talk about the movie, which will lead to other conversations. you'll figure it out, I have faith. Good luck
2007-01-18 11:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by ROOR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if you could say he likes you
but to feel comfortable you can get your friends to talk to him while youre there get use to being around him and just slowly add into their conversations and eventually start talking to him
another way is a note or email thats pretty easy because youre not really talking to him
if you like the guy enough youll step up and just kinda feel relaxed
good luck :]
2007-01-18 11:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by txhorsechick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 09:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about the things he is interrested in and that way you maybe able to figure out if he is the kind of guy that likes you or not. you have to break the shy thing first other wise it will never work for the both of you.....
good luck though
2007-01-18 11:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident! Sounds like a sure thing to me. If he gets nervous around you it means he likes you too. It's hard for shy people to take a relationship risk but be brave and ask him if he'd like to go out.
2007-01-18 11:44:37 · answer #7 · answered by ZZ9 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try an ice pick.
Ok, just kidding. Just say the first things that pop into your head. The weirder, the better. Just be confident. 90% of success is just showing up, and the rest is confidence.
2007-01-18 11:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by mikesglobal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring up the weather. It always breaks the ice b/c it is something that you can both talk about.
2007-01-18 11:38:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The BEST thing to break the ice is alcohol. It loosens your inhibitions so you're not as self conscious or scared of doing something that would normally be much more difficult.
2007-01-18 11:38:59 · answer #10 · answered by BEN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋