my gf is touching other boys?

Question

my gf is smart,good looking and makes good desicions.then i find her touching and talking to another boy. i know another girl just like her. should i break up with her and find another girl?

Answer 1

If she is doing that...then she isnt your girlfriend.

Answer 2

What do you mean by 'touching'? Some people are naturally very tactile and touch others (in a non sexual way) when speaking to them or saying hello or goodbye. If it's something you are worried about then why not talk to your girlfriend about it?
It does, however, sound as though you are already looking around at other girls, so maybe you are just looking for a way out of your current relationship? If not, then talk your feelings over with your girlfriend, as I said earlier.

Answer 3

I guess it all depends on what kind of touching she is doing. If she is just touching shoulders, arms in a friendly and non-sexual way then there is nothing wrong with that. There are lots of people who like to talk with their hands and touch the person they are talking with. You can share your feelings with her and let her know that you are not comfortable with her touching other boys. See what she says. But don't break up because of that

Answer 4

Tell her it makes you feel uncomfortable, there is no eason why she should do it, so if she comes back at you with anything but a "sorry, I didnt know it bothered you, I'll stop doing it" then it means she does not respect you, and never will.
If she means so much to you then start acting up at the time she is doing it and that'll make her stop doing it (in front of you anyway, as she'll know the consequences of her actions); although I don't normally approve of this kind of thing, if the guy she's feeling pays interest...........hit him....................quite a few times!
Doing this will stop her doing what she does and also give you that satisfaction of hitting someone that is trying to get in with your missus.

Answer 5

Depends what you mean by touching her really. Whatever the case you should talk to her and explain how you feel about it all.Maybe then you can both work something out.

It may just be a misunderstanding on your part. It is ok for your partner to show affection to others....male or female.

So long as it isnt sexualy.

Answer 6

Yes

Answer 7

She is free to talk to or even touch anyone she pleases. You don't own her. You sound like a very controlling person. Lighten up or she will leave you.

Answer 8

Only if you are sure that she is touching him innapropriately... If she's just messing around than no.... But if she is touching him like in private areas, than yes. But why would you care if she was simply talking to him?

Answer 9

Depends on what kind of touching is involved. If it was sexual in nature than dump her if it was just a touch on the arm then it's no biggie.

Answer 10

I'd say talk to her about it first.

A lot of things in life aren't always what they seem...

If she lies to your face, you know this girl isn't good for you... and if she's touching other guys and doesn't care what you think she's no good for you.

Good luck making the best choice.

Answer 11

I wouldn't just 'break' up with her.
Tell her you do not undertand why she is talking and touching another boy when she is seeing you as her boyfriend.
Let her know you do not feel this is right and it bothers you.
HOW she reacts to THIS will let you know if you should continue your relationship with her.