okay..........my mom and dad said NOT to have sex with my b/f but me and him are ready and my mom and dad also put me on birth control shot.....my mom said if i DO have sex that i'll have to break up w/ my b/f..............should i do it anywayz ( she said shell find out but she WONT! :)
2007-01-18 10:41:25 · 10 answers · asked by britt1234:) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it! as long as u know ur ready for I REPEAT dont do it unless ur really ready for it n u really love ur b/f cuz some guys r total pigs (n im not sayin ur b/f is...) cuz ive seen what happens when a girl has sex with a guy then he breaks up with her right after n im TOTALLY not sayin ur guy will do this but it has happened b4 so yeah just be careful make sure u love him or at least like him enough cuz yeah
2007-01-18 10:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your mom has put you on the birth control shot, it sounds like she wants to prevent you from becomming pregnant. The only way you can get pregnant is to have sex. So I think she knows that you may be sexually active. I would never put my daughter on the pill and subject her to the risk of taking the pill. But if I thought she may engage in sex, then yes it would be worth the risk. Remember too that you need to use protection always. and I don't think you have to discuss your sex life with your parents. You wouldn't want them to discuss theirs with you.
2007-01-18 18:51:35 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to listen to your parents.You should not be having sex with anyone right now you are too young.You should have more respect for yourself.That's great that your on birth control but that does not prevent diseases.Why are you in such a rush why don't you save yourself for the right person.You will lose respect that you can never regain if you start having sex now.
2007-01-18 18:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you put a age that question could be answered.. But yes she can find out if you have had sex.. All she needs to do is next time you go for your Dr. Appt, they give you your exam all the Dr. needs to do is look and he would be able to tell..So better safe than sorry.
2007-01-18 18:47:23 · answer #4 · answered by ksk_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was you and you are under 18, I wouldn't have sex. For one you may not be ready for anything that may happen (diseases, pregnancy, exc.) If you are over 18 and mature enough to handle it go for it. But your mom can find out if you had sex..there are ways to find out.
2007-01-18 18:46:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how old are you? i assume you still live under thier roof and under 21....If your 15-18. I wouldnt want my daughter tp be having sex, especially if i dont like her boyfriend....and it looks like they dont trust you at all if they have you on birth control....I would think your parents are trying to protect you from doing something dumb.
2007-01-18 18:47:43 · answer #6 · answered by cesarsauce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get pregnant, he'll be your last boyfriend. Nobody wants used cars.
2007-01-18 18:44:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u shudn't...cus whenever parents forbid u in anything and if u still do it,....its gonna cost a lot in the future......even if u least expect it...trust me... i know...
2007-01-18 18:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by sue83jaz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to ur parents. but u already know that..so wats ur question
2007-01-18 18:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe her...SHE WILL FIND OUT
2007-01-18 18:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by saab m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋