So I never thought I could be played by my best friend, who claimed to love me, need me, begged me not to give up on him, & that when he is lost he comes to me because I'm the realest person he knows; but I think I was. I'm really devastated, because we finally slept together, after he admitted to having deeper feelings for me than he admitted too. But after it happened, he still continued to claim he only wanted to be "just friends" & he got together w/ his ex (his only). This guy has serious problems feeling and showing love to himself or others. I was the person he came to with his everything and that he told to his guy friends was one of the most important people in his life. He really wants me in his life, but after I told him how much I love him, he had virtually no reaction, but "I just want to be platonic friends". I found out that I was pregnant, but miscarried, and again he had almost no reaction, but "I'm in shock" and he doesn't understand that I am angry. What the F?
2007-01-18 10:25:34 · 3 answers · asked by manyfacestosee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a really nice guy. /end sarcasm
Anyways, there are about 3.25 billion guys in this world. If you're hung up over that loser you need to go out and mingle.
There are nice guys out there, you just need to search for them.
2007-01-18 10:33:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats y i dont act on tension unless its really worth it...i hooked up w/ a friend too...i didnt beg or anything for her just waited to see where things would go and things started happening...we have difficulties cause shes independent and im not...but we get along. iyll be hard to be friends after u taken that step w/ him but he probably just wanted that so if u say it will be awkward to be friends he wont care b/c he was just f()king around. sorry ur friend had to ruin it for a piece of *** i wouldnt do it myself..just ignore him, he will come back running or he will leave u alone. thats what i do works wonders. best of luck
2007-01-18 18:35:05 · answer #2 · answered by wizzpack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , my bestfriend used to like me but i told him i didn't love him that way only as friends and now we are just bestfriends
2007-01-18 18:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋