I'm 32 year old man. I've got a good job, a great apartment. I'm single and I have a hard time meeting woman. My question is that lately I have started to feel as though all people my age are so ahead of me with their lives. I listen to stories, I watch my friends, and all of them seem to have such rich and rewarding lives. And, I guess I just don't know what I am doing wrong. I feel lost, and also like time just stood still for me, and everyone else kept moving forward. Does anyone else have the same feeling or does anyone know what to do to cure this situation for the better? By the way, I don't have a lot of money, but enjoy being creative. Thanks to everyone.
2007-01-18 10:24:29 · 8 answers · asked by Ian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are your life's goals? Are you working for a future? Women have a right to know the answers to those questions if they're going to stick around. How do your personal grooming habits rate, your breath, your ears, your FEET? Do you listen to women when they talk to you or do you arrest any conversation by talking non-stop about yourself. What do you have to offer her in a relationship now and for the future? Women in general have many more facets to their personality than men and they adore, among other things, someone who is interested in discovering them.
2007-01-26 10:08:15 · answer #1 · answered by gugenheim84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What appears to be might not actually be there. A lot of people live above their means so that other people do not know the situation that they are in. Are you having problems with your credit,maybe not one of your friends might be. Are you comfortable with what you have? You stated that you have a nice job and a great apartment, meaning that you are comfortable with what you have. You are creative right, us your creative energy to help flourish your life style (make it work for you, in a positive way). What matters the most is what you are happy with, regardless of what your friends might have. Good luck with all your creative energy.
2007-01-26 00:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by soldierlady226 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said the magic word.....they all "SEEM" to have rich and rewarding lives......Trust me "the grass isn't always greener on the other side" and if it looks that way it is just because there sewage is making it look greener. Maybe you need to talk to a counselor's for a bit just to help you get your thoughts and life organized and back on track....Most likely they will be able to help you sort things out and put them all in better prospective for you. You can look in to a low cost or even maybe no cost counseling at churches or other kinds of groups or organizations (and you don't have to be religious to go to one at a church)..Don't sit around and feel sorry yourself most of us have times in our lives where were feeling real low and lost but you have to pick yourself up get some help and do something about it today.........
2007-01-18 18:44:31 · answer #3 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dang Man! Quit your whining!
Seriously, the less you complain, the more women will want you, the more women that want you, the more fun you have, the more fun you have, the more your friends will want to be like you.
By the way, all this "moving forward" stuff is a crock. You can be prepared, or not prepared, there is nothing else.
2007-01-26 18:10:31 · answer #4 · answered by frankylone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 32...same thing... im way "behind" time stood still
youre on right track..... creative people usually are the "classic under"achievers" we have other gifts to bring to the world that "they" cannot
mainly the things that TIME affords!!!
leisure is the greatest commodity......luxury, that all WORK so hard to have "one day"
better to have it now
write a book
2007-01-18 18:29:50 · answer #5 · answered by safarlsun33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something that u enjoyed when u were younger... playing football, soccer, basketball something that helped u and coach a team of young kids like a recreation team or something. this will be rewarding for u and the kids. join a gym...or volunteer....believe me it will change ur life... plus u might meet someone on teh way... love happens when u least expect it
2007-01-26 16:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by lynne21288 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Mostly when i am awake i sit around eat bananas and fart. once or twice a day i run down one of the girls and give'em the old boom boom and return to the banana tree. sleeping is the best part. tired of damn bananas and these girls ain't no knockouts like those chimp girls. vava voom! like to try one of those hotties out.
2007-01-18 18:30:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for a run
2007-01-18 18:27:09 · answer #8 · answered by james b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋