Ok, well, I have to make this quick because I have some homework to finish. Anyway, I just moved here (I won't say where), but I've been going to my new school for about 5 months and I really like it. Also, there is this guy and he's perfect. He's funny, very smart, cute, has a good smile and sense of humor, gorgeous green/blue eyes, and really nice hair. But, he has a girlfriend. He never really talks to her (only when she willingly talks to him), he never holds hands with her, never puts his arm around her, never hugs her, anything. It's not that he's unaffectionate, I just don't think that he likes her that much. But I kinda like him. A lot. He keeps trying to talk with me during class, tell me a joke, wait for me by my locker if he's going to the same class as me, or buy me a snack from the veding machines if I don't have money. Yesterday, in calculus, on the way out, he stopped at my desk and stared at me for maybe 6 seconds, but it seemed like forever. What should I do??
2007-01-18 10:23:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should continue what your doing. You and him arent doing ne thing wrong. You guys are just being flirtatious. if things really are how you said they are between him and his gf then keep him aroung cause if him and her dont last then he doesnt have to look far for a new person cause your right here.
2007-01-18 10:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Heather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey seems like you've snagged yourself a dog. The single fact that he's doing all these things while he has a girlfriend, shows that when and if you guys go out then he'll do the same thing to you. If he doesn't like his girlfriend than he should do the right thing by telling her so and breaking up with her. To do these things behind her back is wrong. You shouldn't do anything. Ask him what are his intentions? Is he doing this to get you? Is he doing this because he wants something besides your friendship? And another thing sweetie, never accept anything from a guy that isn't your boyfriend or husband.....especially when you get older. They tend to want something in return, and it is not friendship. Good luck sweetie.
2007-01-18 18:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try talking to him at a friendly level first. If you get the feeling that he likes you as much as you like him, then bring up the girlfriend situation. It's ok to be friends and see if it will progress, it's not ok to be the "other girl." I'm sure you're worth more than having that title and if the situation were reversed, I'm sure you'd be pretty pissed if the girl your boyfriend cheated on you with knew that you were his girlfriend. Try to establish the friendship thing successfully so the situation doesn't turn into a whole bunch of drama.
2007-01-18 18:30:32 · answer #3 · answered by ColleenM7387 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I feel you should be friends for the time being and wait for him to make the move. It's better you don't rush yourself into a relationship. Watch around you to find out how he behaves with other girls. If he does the same with others then perhaps it's natural for him to act such or if you're the only one enjoying it all, then may be you can give him subtle signs of love and wait to see whether he can read them. If he does then you're lucky coz that'll show he likes you. Perhaps you can send him a friendly hug http://www.123greetings.com/events/hug_day/ and show your fondess for him.
2007-01-19 07:58:09 · answer #4 · answered by lisa.reeves 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask if he wants to hang out with you one night. Just cause he has a g/f doesn't mean that you can't try. The worst thing he could do is say no. It seems like he may be interested but you won't know unless you make a move. If worse comes to worse you can just change schools
2007-01-18 18:28:45 · answer #5 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well the thing is....he has a girl friend.so ask him to HANG OUT.and dont kiss or hug or anyythin(well try not to) cuz that would hurt her.but try to get him to realize that u r great and u were meant to be together and blah blah blah.i hope that helps.and i think that he should let the other girl go if he likes u better.
2007-01-18 18:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by May 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
keep talking to him because this could be really good for you. if he really liked his gf im sure he will try his best to keep away from girls that might catch his attention but obviously he isnt so just keep talking to him im sure you guys will end up together. just dont try to hard just keep going with the flow.
2007-01-18 18:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by dahyahnah 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him when he is available to sit down together and tell you more about himself. All these connections in passing won't work.
Don't get physical, just listen.
2007-01-18 18:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and see if he likes you. Once you get talking maybe ask him about his girlfriend, but whatever you do don't like kiss him or do anything like that to make him cheat on her.
2007-01-18 18:28:02 · answer #9 · answered by lovelylittlelady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go for it sometime one girl has to loose for another to gain its more like eat or get eaten. take her down its ovious htat he likes you so make the first move.
2007-01-18 18:29:35 · answer #10 · answered by cosita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋