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Ok, my boyfriend asked me what is my fantasy(just us talking). I have many but one is to be with 2 men at once. Now, I don't want to do that with my current boyfriend because our relationship is very special to me and I just wouldn't want to do that with him and another man maybe if we just met , but I just want to know is it fun, is doing that giving 2 men too much power, do only nasty women do that and most of all should I do it and if anyone has the time how did it feel?

2007-01-18 10:22:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Hey, hey, hey, not all of us who have participated in such activities are NASTY, first of all. 2nd, I think there's a lot of women who share that same exact fantasy. Lemme just tell ya, HELL YEAH, it's FUN!! you'll stay busy and if you find the right 2 guys, you'll stay SATISFIED!! As long as u call the shots, you won't be giving anyone any power, so that won't be an issue. 2 bad u wouldn't be able to bring your boyfriend in on it, but if he's anything like mine, he'll refuse to be in the same bed with another man, let alone naked and...well, you know. Hope you're BRAVE enough to at least try this. You only live once, right?

2007-01-18 10:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0 2

Only dirty women do that. Sex should be between a married man and woman Only, once a week, in between the sheets of their bed. Missionary. Their should be no moaning, no talking, no kissing. It should be done for approximately 5 minutes. Neither party should be fully satisfied. Afterwards they should fall awkwardly asleep, or go back to crossword puzzles or watching T.V.


HA! Kidding!!! But seriously, never in a serious relationship should fantasies like that be explored or even really talked about unless you two were possessing some sort of knowledge that something like this could come up in the future. An example is, if you've presented yourself for 3 or four months as a pretty average person, with a normal sexual appetite, don't bust out with a "hey, know what'd be cool? Me you and some other guy!" Or some other thing like that. Same goes for fellas. Don't pretend like a threesome with 2 gals freaks you out if one day your goonna ask yer girl to have one. Now, i know you said you werent gonna tell your fella that you wanna do this with him, but, well, get a freaking dildo to stick up yer cooter hole while sucking his winky. Itll be a similar experience! Well... not all that similar, but as similar as youre gonna get i guess.

2007-01-18 10:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

I understand you feelings of remaining intimate with your boyfriend. I do not feel that it gives too much power to the men so long as you are all comfortable and discuss what is acceptable before hand. I have not had two men at once but my husband is happy to substitute with "marital aides" (toys) and this works great if you do not want to bring anyone into the situation. If this is something you want to try I suggest looking into toys that may work for you both and talk about how you want to start out trying things, talking about it will also start your engines fast. Go slowly and have fun.

2007-01-18 10:30:42 · answer #3 · answered by Spindle 2 · 1 1

Why is she weird? You guys fantasize about being with two women all the time!

It isn't weird but it isn't a fantasy that many guys would be willing to participate in. Most guys get an inferiority complex about sharing their woman with another man.

If it's something you're really interested in you can tell him. Or you can try to simulate the experience with toys or something instead of another actual person.

2007-01-18 10:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by fluffomatic24 3 · 1 1

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2016-10-31 11:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Hey a fantasy is just a fantasy but it may be in your best interests if you waited for the right time to at least tell your man but chances are you may have to go without this one if yall become more cause if he thinking you are marriage material then he may not be trying to do this.

2007-01-18 11:07:53 · answer #6 · answered by Coolbreeze3 2 · 0 1

I wouldn't say only nasty women,everyone has their own fantasies!I personally wouldn't want that,I just wouldn't want to see my man liking being touched by another man.But I would never think different of like a friend or family member if that was to their liking,to each their own!

2007-01-18 10:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 1 2

Not a Lady excuse me but.....First of all it would give you the power!!CONTROL over two(3,4,5...) men.Secondly don't start it out w/ your BF. but slip him in on the side. Only Knowing women do it and feel great about it,and a splendid time is gaurenteed for all!!!!!!

2007-01-18 10:32:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Though I have done this just once, I must admit, it was very erotic. Both men good looking and talented (if you know what I mean) and it was soooo delicious being fondled and titillated by two pair of hands, lips, and stiff...ooops...and stuff...lol

2007-01-18 10:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 1 0

I've never done it, but I don't think it would give the men the power. You are the only girl, and you can make them do to you what you want. It never hurts to experience.

2007-01-18 10:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by Candi 2 · 1 1

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