Like, writing a suicide note takes too much time. Really! Why bother writing one cause by the time it gets finished there won't be any time left for suicide! Besides, who cares anyway? Isn't it just a waste of time to have to explain the why's of suicide?
Its not like someone is going to go; Gee, I'm sorry I treated you badly. They are more likely to say the note was so full of errors it was more torture trying to decipher it than waiting for you to off yourself.
No body ever figures out why whales beach themselves and commit suicide. Maybe whales know more than we do about the why's of suicide?
2007-01-18 10:19:06 · 11 answers · asked by numb nuts 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Who knows if I was stupid enough to kill myself I would be too stupid to right a note. I agree that what’s the point. If truly, no one cares about you while you are on earth who is going to waste their time reading some letter you wrote. The family will do like all families do when someone dies. Rent a u-haul and knock down the door get the loot you can resale throw the rest in the trash and cash in the life insurance ( wait suicide isn’t covered by life insurance). If people were smart about it then they would make it look like an accident and let the family collect the money. I mean if someone is crazy enough to kill themselves then I am sure that the family members have heard how bad their life is for a while or seen them just lull life away and at least there would be compensation.
If you haven’t noticed, I just get really mean when it comes to this. It is stupid. It solves nothing and every time I answer one about this subject I think of all those babies out there in children’s hospitals that are fighting for every breath they take and want to live so bad yet some never have the chance to ride a bike or have a dog. And some normal healthy human being is walking around contemplating suicide. Insane.
Feather
2007-01-18 10:41:17 · answer #1 · answered by Feather 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
No matter what you write, they are still going to blame themselves. I'm a parent. I blame myself for everything that upsets my children, and no loving parent is different. Considering the guilt that a parent harbors just because they, for example, passed on bad genetics (my son is short like me and has bad ears...that's from me and I feel guilty every day for it), imagine the level of guilt your parents will feel when they find out that you hate your life so much that you killed yourself PLUS you didn't trust them enough to confide in them...That's their job, to help you navigate through life and find out how to be a happy, functioning adult. As a mother, there is NOTHING that I could read in a suicide letter that wouldn't keep me from feeling like everything was MY FAULT. No mother is going to be different. We love our kids, and we love them unconditionally, and if they have a problem, we try everything we can to help them solve it. It's part of the contract. I think the best thing for you to do is to start writing. Write everything you feel, all your thoughts, and why you think you should die. I think you've done this already because your question tells me that you've tried and discarded many different things to say to your parents already. And then, when you are at an emotional lull, I think you should go online and look for different groups and websites that are tailored to gays. Your problem is that you don't feel like you have acceptance and support. Both of these can be found online. You would never believe how accepting and understanding the Netizens are. I lived four years of my life once with nothing but the internet for socialization. And during that time of my life, they kept ME alive. I'm not gay, but I had some serious **** going on in my life at the time. But to get back to your question: I'm sorry but there is no magical phrase. No matter what you say to your parents, they will live the rest of their lives believing that your death was their fault. There's something else about suicide, though, that you need to understand: Everyone who knows you will feel sorry for you, and will make a big deal about it for a little while, but then you'll be forgotten by everyone except your parents. When you are young, you have no legacy, and the only thing that keeps you in someone's mind is a legacy. In short: if you are romanticizing suicide then you are mistaken. The only people you will affect will be your parents, and the effect will be extremely negative. If you want to make people feel guilty because you killed yourself, cure cancer first. The world has not treated you horribly. I've never done a thing to you. The very small circle of people whom you are currently exposed to may be $hitting on you, but those select few are not the world. I've traveled all over the world, anti-gay people are the exception, not the rule. As a matter of fact, most European countries are extremely tolerant and accepting of gay people. It's their culture to be so. I would advise against visiting the middle east, though. But then again, I would advise against that no matter who you are. That place is Fu(ked Up.
2016-05-24 04:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it helps to write one. I was thinking about it, and wrote one and justput all of my emotions out,and it made me feel good enough that i didn't end up doing it. So maybe some people are just trying to get better. Others maybe just want others to know how they felt and so that people don't blame themselves or something.
2007-01-18 10:28:06 · answer #3 · answered by MEEE 1 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I just answered your other question. You've got alot of support from ppl who don't even know you, including me. I really hope that this a joke and not for real. If you would like to chat my e-mail is in my profile and you can use it anytime you want. If you really need help with things, please let anyone of us who is willing to help you know.
Please, take care and I hope to see you asking another question again here for a long time to come!
2007-01-19 17:10:19 · answer #4 · answered by gord's360 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most people who truly want to kill themselves don't leave notes, people who leave notes are normally looking for help, and don't know what else to do.
That being said, if this is a way of saying that your considering suicide, I suggest taht you call a crisis hotline, and find a counseller you can trust.
2007-01-18 15:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica B 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Think of the person who would come in and find your body? How do you think they will react? The first thing they will want to know is WHY! and WHY didn't you ask for help...you are being un-fair to yourself and your family. Whoever does find you will seriously be messed up for the rest of their lives and would you wish that on them?! Also, what if your family can't afford the funeral expenses? That is so thoughtless on your part of what this will do to those who love you!
Nothing is worth killing yourself over, it will pass and if it doesn't then PLEASE tell someone who will take care of you and get you the help you need.
P.S. I agree with the member Feather...grow up and think of those who would die to have a healthy body that you may have and you just want to throw it away? I read your other questions and it seems that you are getting counseling but maybe you aren't being totally open with your doctor, you need to be open and honest even if it may be embarrassing or hard to talk about.
2007-01-18 10:31:28 · answer #6 · answered by LS 4 · 0⤊ 6⤋
Committing suicide is the most selfish thing a person could ever do, but if someone absolutely has to do it then they might as well say their last goodbyes. They shouldn't put the blame on other people though, I'm sure their loved ones will be having a tough time already.
2007-01-18 10:50:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
Life is fantastic and meaningful when connected with God. There is no need for suicide at all. One minute after one dies, he faces either Heaven or Hell, for eternity. Be careful what we do!
In the Beginning God created heavens and earth.
God gives you air to breathe and sunshine to enjoy.
God gives you water to drink and food to eat.
God gives you a wonderful body and sound mind, to live.
God loves you, and you are precious to Him.
Son of God died on the Cross to save us from condemnation.
Jesus’ love is boundless and everlasting.
We have the hope of Heaven through Jesus.
Life therefore has fantastic and glorious future!
(Please must visit: www.spiritlessons.com)
2007-01-18 10:29:03 · answer #8 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 3⤊ 4⤋
I would advise someone as insensitive as you to NOT go into any work that requires you to help people in anyway. You are an awful person, I hope you NEVER have anyone die to suicide in your family. I also hope no one puts you in their will either,you don't deserve anything. What I can't understand is why people like you have to be closed minded and jerks to things they don't understand and have no compassion for. Good luck with life!!!! Hopefully not!!!
2007-01-18 10:31:19 · answer #9 · answered by momofatsc 3 · 2⤊ 5⤋
I don't know i've never want to get to that point to think about that,
2007-01-18 10:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋