My dentist insists I get an implant to replace a missing molar even though it's expensive, I have other debts to pay off, I have car payments, I'm in my mid fifties and nearly of age for a rocking chair, and it's in the back where nobody would see it. He won't listen to my refusal. Should I get one to keep the peace with him, or should I look for a dentist who listens to his patients?
2007-01-18 10:07:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Dental
He may be advising in your best interest, but not looking at the money interest you're concerned about. I would call the office and talk to the office manager or your hygienist if you feel comfortable with her and let them know your concern. He might have been in a hurry and not noticed your concern, or there may be a medical reason why he wants you to have the implant.
If you have a tooth that is above/below where you lost this molar tooth then he has a point in advising you this direction. But he should still explain it to you rather than assume you just know these things.
He must think you are going to be around for a much longer time than you expect to be here too. Most older patients aren't advised to get them, but you're only in your 50's, give me a break with the rocking chair! Also, your dental health must be very good, otherwise he would not have suggested it.
So I suggest you call, I'm sure you will get it straightened out and find it's just a misunderstanding probably on both parts. Do try to work it out, a good dentist that you feel comfortable with is hard to replace. Not impossible, but it can take more work to find a new one rather than to talk to this one and work it out. Good luck!
2007-01-18 10:33:55 · answer #1 · answered by HeatherS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mid fifties is not "rocking chair" ready. Trust me on this one. If your dentist insists on the implant, simply tell him that you cannot afford it and you can't/won't pay for it. Tell him next time he is giving them away for free, then you'll be the first in line. Don't let anyone bully you into doing something you don't want to do. It's your body!
Now from another viewpoint. There is probably a reason he wants you to have an implant. It will keep your other teeth from shifting around and reduce stress on the surrounding teeth.
Good luck with this!
2007-01-18 10:15:17 · answer #2 · answered by Sabina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you need to keep the peace with your dentist? I'd ask him why he wants you to get one so badly. It doesn't sound like you're in pain or that getting this implant will help the general overall state of your mouth. Ask him if there is a valid reason why you need one, and then you can decide based on that. Would your dentist be lining his own pockets if you do this? If he doesn't have a valid reason for the implant, and he still won't listen to you, I think you should find another dentist.
2007-01-18 10:12:05 · answer #3 · answered by * tj * 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, it's not his decision whether you get one or not, it's yours. Personally, I'd get a second opinion. If your dentist is that pushy, it's time to maybe look into finding another one. I can't stand people who try to push their products on others, or can't take no for an answer.
Another thing to think about is is this missing molar going to set the teeth out of alignment. I'm guessing you've lived without this molar for quite sometime. If that's the case, why is he now insisting to replace it. Sounds fishy to me. I'd do more research.
2007-01-18 10:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Voice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its time for a new dentist. He sounds like a jerk. Some dentists and doctors for that matter do not understand "I have no money for this" and if you are fine with it then don't do it. Sometime when you can afford it and if you then want the implant then get it. Get a new dentist please.
2007-01-18 10:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by silentjealousy77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight out if he puts it in, you are not paying for. It will be his loss. This guy sounds money hungry. He's a dentist, not a salesman.
2007-01-18 10:17:30 · answer #6 · answered by lonebear76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like the patint charter isn't working for you - seek the medical council and get advice - your dentist may have been reported for this before - they might be out to maske a fast buck out of you
2007-01-18 10:10:55 · answer #7 · answered by Gringo L 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are his client and patient; he works for you. Be firm and tell him no is the bottom line and if he doesn't accept your answer find another dentist.
2007-01-18 10:12:00 · answer #8 · answered by southern_bellechick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personaaly i would tell him to go to ..... if he keeps insisting its your right to have done what you want down and because of your age and mine they will all have to come out sometime save money and go party
2007-01-18 10:11:51 · answer #9 · answered by oldmanarnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just want the money just tell him he's not going to get it from you
2007-01-18 10:11:54 · answer #10 · answered by cocochyna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋