I mean personal information being found about you & spread WITHOUT your consent.
gossip, lies, poison being distributed & therefore being accused with nothing to defend yourself becuase you have no-one to back you up to say if this is truth. I know truth always comes out at the end but if someone has already made up their mind you're a certain way how can you defend yourself against accusations?
if someone you don't know turns around & says this & that or not even say anything but treat you a certain way when they don't even know you, what can you say to them....I don't remeber who said this but a famous person said(don;t remeber exact words) I always see the fault in the person who talks behind people's backs & spreads gossip; not the perosn being talked about.
I want an honest, intelligent opinion. I'm being harrassed big time & these people are destroying my life.
Please I don't need any more aggro, if you have nothing constructive to say don't reply, thank u
2007-01-18 09:46:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I don't give out any info, I don;t know how they find out.
2007-01-18 09:54:27 · update #1
Thank you suebnm, it makes sense you're right.
2007-01-18 09:55:18 · update #2
Thanks guys.
2007-01-18 10:02:08 · update #3
Thank you guys, all the answers were really helpful. I cannot go to the person becuase I don't know who they really are. All I know is that on amny occasions, people know very personal things about me without me having said anything or sometimes even knowing them!
2007-01-23 12:14:22 · update #4
you should not worry. fu$$ them all. sorry for the language
2007-01-18 16:47:53 · answer #1 · answered by thinkingstrange 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't the one at fault. If people are making judgements about you from hearing gossip there's not a lot you can do except hold your head high and try and get through it. Hopefully then people will see you are the one acting sensibly and give you more respect. Good luck.
2007-01-18 17:57:59 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's extremely hard (I've had this all my life - having serious mental problems) but try not to defend yourself in anyway. The more you say - the worse it gets for you.
The expression is 'rise above it', I really feel for you over this.
2007-01-18 17:54:32 · answer #3 · answered by suebnm 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Advice given to me years ago was best way to keep your neighbours is to keep them out of your house and if someone tells you one tale they will carry more away about you I am always saying Oh dear and have lots of ways of saying it I never say yes or no as you are then agreeing
2007-01-18 18:13:54 · answer #4 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the the gossip monger and put him or her straight. tell to shut up and stop spreading the damn rumor and you have to walk a mile in a persons shoes before you know them, there i hope this helps.
2007-01-23 20:03:41 · answer #5 · answered by "*♥*Nafisa*♥*" 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand up for the truth kid!!!...You know the truth about yourself not the gossipers, just ignore them...look at it this way if they are talking about you then they are leaving someone else alone....take it easy and forget about them they are probably just jealous xx
2007-01-18 17:56:22 · answer #6 · answered by trixiecat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is not give out personal information about yourself.
2007-01-20 01:08:41 · answer #7 · answered by daryavaush 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IGNORE THOSE WHO LOVE GOSSIPING. THEY LOVE THE PLEASURE OF GETTING UNDER YOUR SKIN.
2007-01-18 18:13:04 · answer #8 · answered by mr._wii_player 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont give out ur info,,,,nf duh
2007-01-18 17:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by cgirl279 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋