we were together 2 yrs.... doing ok/good! but she wouldnt give me enough love for me to prepose to her ( i wanted to ) after xmas she secretly started seeing a guy at work ( no sex involved ) for 10 days in the evenings she then told me about it and that she no longer loved me...she is now living with this guy she says relationship wasnt going anywhere????? did she use this guy she hardly knows to get out ? but not be alone
2007-01-18 09:33:42 · 21 answers · asked by Wise_guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes she is afraid to be alone. More fool her she will never have a successful relationship until she spends some time on her own finding out who she really is.
Sometimes when there is a lack of communication in the realtionship one party might not realise that the other is unhappy.
Learn from this experience and make sure you keep the lines of communications open with future girlfriends and talk often but other than that forget your ex. You deserve somebody who loves you.
2007-01-18 11:51:30 · answer #1 · answered by Starkitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing happened to me 2 weeks ago,i had been with him for 6 years and we have a 4 year old son,he says he`s not seeing anybody but i think it`s total bull,he done it during the summer and i took him back believing we were meant to be together forever,but i now realise we`re not.
Thank your lucky stars this happened before kids were involved as it`s so much harder,don`t ever take her back as she`ll then think she can walk all over you.Get out there and find some1 who deserves your love and commitment,thats what i`m gonna do,goodluck and chin up,xx
2007-01-18 10:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like she did. Some people will only break up with their present partner if they have someone else to go to. It seems a bit quick for her to move in with him to me. You are better off without her. Find yourself a real woman, one that will give you all the love that you want and deserve. Believe me there are some nice women out there, you just haven't found the right one yet.
2007-01-18 09:40:16 · answer #3 · answered by JillPinky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems most likely that she tired of waiting for the Big Question, found someone to shack up with and moved on before she bothered to inform you. Forget about her and continue with your life, such a person is not worth being in a relationship with.
2007-01-18 09:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This thing happens all the time., but if she left you for another guy, don't
give her the satisfaction of taking her
back or even wanting her back.
There is someone out there for you,
who'll treat you right. Give it time.
GOOD LUCK.
2007-01-18 09:40:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From her character...my guess is that they will breakup.
She is one of those women who needs to be treated like crap. She is with him because she wants to be with him. Now that they aren't sneaking around, it won't be so much fun for her. You don't need her.
Believe me...you should be grateful you were spared before a wedding.
Find a nice girl and move on.
2007-01-18 09:38:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is merciless and also you should sense free she is lengthy gone. you'll locate someone who will love you and can want to by no ability attempt this to you. you should have smacked that telephone out of her fingers and laughed at her even as she became choosing up the products.
2016-10-15 10:19:40 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has been with him for 10 days, there is sex involved. Don't be so stupid.
Find another chick.
2007-01-18 09:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he could win her over without having sex be grateful for it couldn,t have been you sex life that was a problem. We can,t all be soul mates good luck.
2007-01-18 09:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares? She is now your ex. get out and find another girl, just dont come after mine as she is sooooo in love with me - i hope! good luck pal
2007-01-18 09:55:29 · answer #10 · answered by confused 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋