Shall I being indifferent or careness?

Question

I was told by my best friend that never rely on any man no matter how much you love him. Take care of your self and be responsible for yourself because no one in the world can take care of you.

I began to agree with her because I found that usually when you love someone deeply, the result will always be the opposite.

Yes,I have this guy friend who I like him a lot. And before I showed my careness a lot for him and he withdrew and said he was not ready for relationship. Since that I withdrew myself and focused on myself, now he seemed to care more about me.

I know in my heart I still have feeling for him,but I just afraid that I might be hurt if I give my heart too much to him.

Shall I being indifferent?What should I do?

Answer 1

let him care for you....he will let you know when he is ready for a relationship.