We've been out once, she had to cancel 2 other times for family matters, since christmas. We (used to) talk on the phone everyday, but only twice in the past week.
We are 20 and 19
Do I ask her if i'm too slow? She has a baby and I've never had a gf so i don't want to go too fast.
2007-01-18 09:22:39 · 22 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her. Be open and honest. Anything less will cost you much pain and heartache.
2007-01-18 09:26:01 · answer #1 · answered by Philo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am just going to guess, but U said (use) 2 talk on the phone everyday.
Did she ever see U Face 2 Face B4 U guys started talking on the phone?
If she did NOT & stopped talking 2 U as much as she Use 2 chances R she does NOT like U.
Sorry!
Or that she has got back with her BabyDaddy. How old is the child.
There are a lot of things to think about.
And another thing When did you guys become BoyFriend & GirlFriend if U have ONLY been out once.
Oh! U R moving way 2fast.
Stop calling her that way U can C if she really cares about U A girl who really I mean really like a guy & is his girlfriend will call if U DON'T get a call within 48hours.
4-GET-ABOUT-IT!!!! Move-On
2007-01-18 09:31:25 · answer #2 · answered by Classy Bit@$ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The girl is horny. She isn't getting any due to being so busy with the baby. Her hormones are getting back to normal, and now she needs it... and she needs it badly.
She gave you two opportunities for you to service her, and you didn't deliver. She's disappointed in you, and has probably lost interest. She is probably talking to and/or dating other guys, and putting you on the back burner.
Don't call her anymore. Wait for her to call you. If and when she does, don't jump up and do what she says. Tell her you are too busy, but that next week... during a workday (mon-fri) you have time to do something after dinner. You see, you don't want to waste money on a dinner date. You invite her to your place, and service her. Done deal.
2007-01-18 09:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 11:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am happily married and I went through the same trouble. Just ask her out whenever you can so she will be less likely to cancel. You can't have family matters every day. About the whole kid thing, try to do stuff with just you and him just some 1 on 1 time toghether will make him like you more and that makes the burden on your girlfriend less and less. A good relationship with your girlfriends kid is also important if you happen to get married. And you call her every day like you used to and if she's not there, but at least you tried. Just try my advice. Good luck,
Bob
2007-01-18 09:32:18 · answer #5 · answered by Bob B 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont have much experience obviously, hold her hands and hug her work your way up to kissing her if you havnt yet, if you have then kiss her often. Tell her shes beautiful and make an effort to call her. She will open up to you more, she might be kind of jaded about men since she has a baby so treat her special.
Hope that helps.
2007-01-18 09:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your doing just fine homeboy, make sure the both of you are on the same page and if or you haven't yet show interest in the child.
If the date yall went out on was by yourselfs pick a date where yall can go as a "group".
2007-01-18 09:30:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should make sure she wants to persue something before you get too attached. So yes, you need to talk to her, ask her if your too slow and see what she thinks about the relationship. Remember to go at a comfortable pace and not go too fast for your liking. Good Luck :]
2007-01-18 09:28:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The dating game is a funny one mate. If one presses on the other one backs off, and vice versa. How about letting her miss you? Maybe ringing her once a week, and letting her ring you sometimes. If she really wants you, she will make the effort to get in touch.
2007-01-18 09:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by dasdesperado 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, how you can tell if your moving to slow is if she starts giving you signs like, come over, or anything that says she wants to be alone with you, thats when she wants to pick up the pase. you should look for more signs and try not to miss them. otherwise she will think that this is going nowhere. good luck
2007-01-18 09:28:11 · answer #10 · answered by laughwithashley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋