THIS IS IMPORTANT TO ALL MIDDLE SCHOOLERS(and mostly girls that would want to answer?

Question

This is the problem i really like this girl but i don't know if she likes me back.
1)She starts talking to me randomly
2)she sais all these stuff about her personnel life..like what bad things people did to her
3)she comes to talk to me or site next to me and just talks and laughs while i am around
4)she always sais hy then smiles even when other people are around.
Ok i heard that she was asked out to the school danse but she only tells me.does that mean she wanted for me to ask her. I would but she is nice to everyone . she hasn't answered that guy yet. But i don't even know if she really was asked out. I really like her but i don't know how to tell her she is always sorounded by people so i is kinda difficult to tell her without anybody around. I was going to ask her if she wants to walk home (she lives very close to my house and i can walk with her.But she then told me that story but i didn't ask her yet .How should i get her to walk with me or be alone with me
PLEASE HELP

ANY PERSON WILLING TO PUT A NICE AND DETAILED ANSWER WILL GET AN EXTRA 10 POINTS

Answer 1

I'm old enough to be your grandmother, dear, but I do have something to say about this. MIDDLE SCHOOL is the 'best time' for you to be learning how to 'socially interact' with other people, but sometimes things are so scary that you don't know what to do. I think you should 'start small' ... ask her first if she would like to walk to a class with you. Her answer will probably be yes, so a few days later, you 'move it up a notch' and ask her to sit with you at lunch. If that answer is 'yes' then you can ask her if you 'may walk her home' ... but if you want to be 'really cool' you should also say that you're 'interested in her as a friend, but you're also wondering if she'd be interested in being 'more' to you, like your 'girlfriend.' You really NEED to do this BEFORE you actually walk her home, because her answer to you should tell you 'what to do' with her during the walk. And this next sounds 'really old' ... but if you offer to 'carry her books' and she says yes to that, then you've got a 'really good chance.' I'm 56 and my HUSBAND still 'carries my books' home for me ... and sometimes acting 'old fashioned' seems REALLY NEW when you do it, and THAT will attract 'positive attention' to you.

Answer 2

Personally, I think she likes you back. It seems to me that she is completely comfortable talking with you, like with personal stuff, and she tells you about other guys asking her out so she doesn't let you know she likes you. I think she likes to be surrounded by other people when you're around because she is afraid of an awkward moment or she needs a distraction from you so she won't give any hints that she likes you back.
She totally likes you and is giving you all the signs and flirting! Just invite her bowling or to a movie, not specifically ask her out and see what happens, tell her she can bring some friends too, so its not awkward. If that doesn't work, because she might be too shy, just ask her if she wants you to walk her home.

Answer 3

When you both finish school go outside and find her outside, and then be like hay was up, and then just randomly ask her if she is going home yet, most likely she ll say yes, be like oh me 2, you wanna go together. That's how u get her alone and once you r alone just be like. I need to ask you a question, if you wasn't asked yet, would you like to go to the dance with me. you better ask her asap becuase if you wont you ll regret for a long time, u rather have a no then a regret, trust me!!!

Answer 4

well, those are pretty big signs that she likes you.

1. you could call her , ''though that would be alittle mean, in a sense, so i've heard''

2. slip a letter in her locker

3. try and talk to her and ask if she has anything to do on saturday or another day and just hang out and tell her that you just want to hang out with her, and during your hanging out time you could ask her to the dance. Or ask if she is going to the dance with anyone else THEN ask her.

4. just ask her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 5

ok this is from a girls point of view (plus i'm a 13 year old girl)
she must really like u cuz if she takes time out of her day to say hi and smile at u she must like u. invite her after u guys get off the bus or watever to u to walk her home.
good luck
Kelse

Answer 6

Please look up under my name/icon photo, my best answer questions for a young guy who asked me the question:
"what can i say to my girlfriend?" I think it will help you. Thank you and best wishes. Just fyi, have fun getting to know people at this time of your life. You will learn then, the kind of girl you really want to be around, that is good for you.

Answer 7

First and foremost, focus more on your studies than girls for now. "Says, Dance, Hi" and I'm not even going to talk about your grammar.

As for your question, don't be afraid, ask her. She obviously likes you as a friend so that's a start.

Answer 8

sometimes the best way is to just ask her. if she's uncomfortable being alone with someone then you shouldn't push it.. cause you could push her away.

maybe a note would be best.. or if that's a little scary.. get her number and call her. if you don't have it.. just tell her you need to ask her about something and get it.


or you could ask to talk to her in private.

either way.. you need to know if she does or she doesn't. don't worry about being embarassed. it'll be okay.

Answer 9

I think you should actually try to stand up and do something about it and you should go up to her and tell her if she want's to go to the dance. Then if she says yes then ask her if she likes you. well I guess you should go for it. If you really have feelings for her. Just do it.

Answer 10

Be confident and just flat out ask, she will like that I promise. Girls like the guys that are sure of them selves however not cocky, find a happy medium and you are in, oh and work on your grammar.