What to do!!??!!?

Question

i like this girl shes my friend, and i want to tell her i like her but i know she dosent find Alot of interest but finds some, we know each other real well, but im in 9th grade and so is she, but if she rejects me and i see her in a few of my classes next year, it will be awkword,....what to do???

Answer 1

Listen to a dude much older then you...don't be afraid of any woman your age. Chances are she is just as scared. In the long run, and kids have trouble picturing this, you'll be rejected and accepted by the opposite sex 100's of times over the next 20 years or so...and high school makes no difference when you get to college or graduate...do it, don't live to regret it 20 years later.

2 quick stories...i went to my 10 year high school Reunion, i saw this girl i used to totally crush on, being adult and more confident, i bought her a drink and struck up a conversation, we were some of the only single people at the Reunion. Well, to keep it PG, we hooked up that night and at one point she said to me "to bad we didn't do this 10 years ago, i always liked you"...

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a friend of mine just got married, and after many beers we got to talking about what you would do if you could go back in time...my friend said, and consider this words to live by for a young dude like your self..."if i could go back to high school, this time through I'd even finger the ugly girls just for fun...cause really back then it mattered..now it doesn't!"

Live while your young! Do it!

Answer 2

Highschool is terrible for that. But unfortunatly you're stuck there. it takes 2 people to make a situation awkward, if you don't want it to be awkward don't let it, talk to her. But that's not the point of this question. Just go for it man if you don't you'll always be asking the question "what if?" so just grab your balls and do it!

Gluck