ok well i like (love) some guy that lives 3 houses away from me ritght so we started talking like friends later we were bestfriends and one day (dec. 2) he told me to go to his house like at 11 pm. so when i go over there we started talkin about how we should be together and then he kissed me ( and duh!!!!!! i kissed back) but he went out of hand (ok let me get to the point) we ****** (he was my first and only guy) well after that happened he doesn't even look at me any more and i'm going crazy because i'm in love with him. and now that we dont talk i dont know how to tell him that i'm going to have a baby. (the only person that kno that is my stepmom) and i dont kno what to do. i need help( i'm a 6 weeks old) oh, yea i 4 got to say now he has a girlfriend. and it hurts me seeing them talk together in the halls in braddock. yea im in 11 grade.
2007-01-18 08:06:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright, look I realize that this is scary and u never meant to make a baby...all u wanted was that special feeling that EVERYBODY has when thay feel loved...thats all u ever wanted. Well, thats what u WANTED(past tense)...and now all u WANT(present) is for this guy to love u, so that this baby wont have to grow up without a father. You realize that there are alot of sigle moms out there that raise a baby...and what U need to do is just tell this guy...and if he wants to get back together with u...then good decision...and if he doesnt then make sure u know that the only thing u can to is love the baby more than anything. This baby is now in ur hands...love it and cherish it...and whatever u do...u make damn sure that u never tell it that it was a mistake. It breaks a kids heart to think they were a mistake on this earth. Just tell the guy...and if he doesnt want anything to do with the baby...then **** him!!...Hes a screwed up kid. Good luck...and i truly do wish u the best. Love that baby forever!!
2007-01-18 08:24:53 · answer #1 · answered by brit_09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oof, this is tough. He probably doesn't feel the same about you, he seems like a player so just get him out of your head and worry about your situation. I don't know him so I can't tell if he's a good guy or not, but usually a good guy would not do that to you. He took advantage of you and now you have a huge responsibility to take care of. A baby is a blessing, but you really need to make sure you have the resources to care for it, meaning money and learning how to be a good parent real quick. Or considering adoption. You have a huge choice in your hands and he probably doesn't care to be any part of it.
2007-01-18 16:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... he played you seriously i guess
Well what are you gonna do? 11th grade with a baby.. you better get a job now or figure out what to do about the baby
Its too late to talk the baby issue out.. you need to just tell the kid and let him run away like he probably will.
Either way you have to figure out something fast time is running out
2007-01-18 16:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by Prof. Timpo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey, You need to tell him that you are having his baby. I know that its hurts but now you are having a baby and it wont always be about you and how you feel because if you are hurting your baby is too. Good Luck. He needs to Know.
2007-01-18 16:14:10 · answer #4 · answered by Fallin out of Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋