This is a complicated situation. I have this couple that I'm really good friends with and they have this guy that is their friend. They introduced us and we all began hanging out. We have a lot of fun together but now the guy likes me but I'm not interested in him that way. I have told him I do not want to date right now just trying not to hurt his feelings. We all go on trips together we have the Super Bowl trip to Miami planend next month in which my friend's boyfriend pays for everything. since we are all friends I do not want to be mean to the guy and make my other friends mad but he is just not getting the hint. Sometimes he even kind of freaks me out when we are all out he tells other guys that talk to me I'm with him when I'm not I'm with our friends. What should I do? I don't want to not be able to hang out with my friends because of him. Please give advice.
2007-01-18 08:03:52 · 5 answers · asked by Venus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to stop going out with them when he's invited. Let them know he's making you uncomfortable. Be honest, then he'll get the message, the point and the boot if he doesn't behave.
2007-01-18 08:11:38 · answer #1 · answered by kasar777 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your out with him and your friends, don't let him get in the way of someone you're interested in. If a guy is into you, he won't pay attention to your friends. During conversations with this friend, make sure and talk about your interest in other guys (without rubbing it in to much). Also, try not to give of any signals that he might interpret as flirting.
2007-01-18 16:13:46 · answer #2 · answered by tHEwISE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you feel that you and him are just friends and that he feels like a brother to you instead of the boyfriend kind of way!!!!
2007-01-18 16:18:07 · answer #3 · answered by sexysingle_2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when he introduces you as his date just laugh and say something like "yeah, right, you know you would dump me for the first pretty girl that walks by, which is why i'm glad we're just good friends!" don't stand beside him--mingle with the crowd and say things to him like "i think that girl over there is checking you out--why don't you go talk to her?"
2007-01-18 16:11:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
make -up a new boyfriend. lie to be kind and you two can still be friends.
2007-01-18 16:09:35 · answer #5 · answered by pooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋