her parents are making her break up with me and to make sure they are having her big brother watch to make sure. We both have very deep feelings for eachother. I want to find a way to work this out between the parents and me so that they can trust me.
2007-01-18 08:02:16 · 10 answers · asked by dylicious92 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well they may not be willing to talk to you at first, but just talking to them should show them that your primary concern is their daughter, parents want to watch over there kids, not becuase they are control freaks but because they are human to. but if your girlfriend doesn't like it either, they can't watch you all the time, believe me on that. and her big bro can't follow her everywhere ethier, and if he's really hard to shake then just get her to say she is going clothes shopping :). but i think your main aim here is to have her parents on board, which shows that you have respect for them and you girlfriend, and they should pick up on that. maybe you should disguss what is acceptable for you all. the limits they want you going to though though the respect you display in your question i don't think your going to be having full on sex with her just yet! (though that could be one of their main concerns). if all of you sit down and talk reasonably you should come back with a reasonable result. to be honest you have to respect their concerns, say you have limits with them to, that you love her, and you want to do what is best by her, and that she loves you to, and they have to accept she is growing up, and they can't have an innocent child playing with barbies for ever, though i wouldn't say it like that.
all the best
ps: chances are, the big brother won't be likley to want to have to follow her around everywhere.
2007-01-18 08:12:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot depends on how old you are. It appears that the parents are concerned that the two of you may be heading for intimacy and they feel that their daughter is not old enough.
Don't try to force the issue. If you both really care about each other, time will help you and the parents come to a shared decision.
2007-01-18 08:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You maybe should sit down and have a mature talk with the parents and allow them to see you for who you really are. If they already have their mind made up about you they prob, wont listen or care, but if they misjudged you and they are good people they might reconsider. The worst that can happen is they wont change their minds, but you can walk away knowing you tried at least.
2007-01-18 08:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by tang 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simplest solution - don`t go to her house - but meet elsewhere. Problem is, you cannot do much - she is the one that needs to talk to her parents. Be supportive, and if needed, visit again to have a chat with her parents. You didn`t specify your age though - that may be a factor (if you are 12 or something)
2016-03-29 03:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sylvia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must have done something awful bad! for the parents not to want that! I hope you have learned your lesson. Seems like you are out of this family Good luck with slipping around.. They are ways to do that. I done it for 2 years before we got caught but they knew it at least that's what they said.
2007-01-18 08:10:05 · answer #5 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she cared about you she wouldn't be bullied into breaking up with you. No matter how much her parents hate you or try to make her, they can't physically make her. It's her choice in the end.
2007-01-18 08:05:31 · answer #6 · answered by * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let them that you 2 have strong feelings for each other, and try to sit them down and tell to give a Chane to show them how much you want to be with her. just tell them that you would do anything for her and just tell them what's on your mind and have here talk to her parents too have her tell them how she feel.
2007-01-18 08:12:48 · answer #7 · answered by suny y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with her and her parents and talk it out. and if they dont want to listen keep trying. dont give up ^_^
2007-01-18 08:05:41 · answer #8 · answered by lys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it go and go find a new chick.
2007-01-18 08:05:32 · answer #9 · answered by Trey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only assume that you guys are minors. Leave it alone and do your homework.
2007-01-18 08:05:30 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋