I sure think it is
2007-01-18 08:00:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, but if it's just slight flirting I don't think so but if it's major flirting especially with the same person all the time Huge big deal!!
2007-01-18 08:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by The_Game 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly,it depends on the person and the extent of the flirting. If your spouse is that type of person and you know that it is harmless then you shouldn't worry. I think if someone flirts with a married person in front of their spouse it is very disrespectful. And so is flirting with another person while you are married. I've had this happen to me where a famous married man came on to me right in front of his wife, I was totally turned off. And I have liked this guy forever. So to answer your question, it depends on the person, the boundaries you've set in your relationship, and the way you feel about each other. If you married a flirtatious type but you're the jealous type then you have a problem.
2007-01-18 16:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Elle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is extremely disrespectful at any time, I don't care if the spouse happens to be there at the time or not. I see nothing wrong with having friends of the opposite sex if your married but the married person knows the boundries of that friendship. I think the only time flirting is ok is between two people single AND unattached.
2007-01-18 16:10:05 · answer #3 · answered by sassywv 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it disrespectful. I use to know someone like this who always flirted with the girls friends, it made the friends uncomfortable and made his girlfriend look like a idiot for putting up with it. This guy obviously didn't have to many social skills or he would have known how to act around people. I always thought he thought of himself as some great thing that all the girls loved, but the truth of the matter is that no one really liked him they just put up with him because of his girlfriend. Sometimes guys are so stupid!!!!!
2007-01-18 16:08:19 · answer #4 · answered by jlynncogbill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't because I am a big flirt!! I think it is according to what kind of flirting you are doing.. I am the only female at my job.. Guys say stuff all the time but we know how far to go. There is a respectful way to flirt
2007-01-18 16:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by luckycharm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sure do also. Why do they have to flirt if they are happily married?! I know that even now with my boyfriend if I openly flirt with someone he has a cow.....then I thought about it and realized that I would be the same way if he flirted with another girl.
2007-01-18 16:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by lizzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. A marriage is a bond made between two people and when one of those two people shows interest in someone outside the bond, it can be dangerous not to mention disrespectful to their spouse.
2007-01-18 16:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by pussycat4073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Verses flirting with a member of the same sex? I choose the 1st one.
2007-01-18 16:03:17 · answer #8 · answered by Highbeam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do u think smart one. Of course, listen if u are married flirting isn't allowed. Unless she is just talking to a member of the opposite sex, or is just really drunk.
2007-01-18 16:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by starbury_crossover 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a little disrespectful but if it is harmless and doesn't get heavy then I think it makes you feel good every now and again to be on the receiving end of it.
2007-01-18 16:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋