Me and my gf of like almost a year broke up couple of weeks ago. Then you know I was getting over her when she came out and told me I am the only guy for her and she still really cares about me, likes me a lot and pretty much told me she still loves me. I love her too I am crazy about this girl, but I dont really see us going anywhere in the future cuz of the situation we are in. What I dont get is why is it soooo had to just forget her, and let go. Maybe part of my problem is that I talk to her everyday and that kills. I am too much of a nice guy and love her way too much just to say i dont want to talk to you. I do wanna ask her out again later on though maybe after couple of years when we are done with what ever we are gonna do. Sooo someone tell me what i can do i am going crazy.
2007-01-18 07:46:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why cant you date her?
If everything being equal i dont see why you cant date this girl.
You are communicating and sharing emotions.. I guess without more information i stand with the whole "Go date her you crazy man you"
2007-01-18 07:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by Prof. Timpo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, I'm in the same boat with you.
I want to stay away from my ex, we were together for 2 1/2 years.
The break up was mostly his idea, and i agree, we just can't be what each other wants.
but it doesn't take away from the hurt, and I know it's going to get worse before it gets better.
I find myself thinking about him, wanting to call,e-mail, and whatever.
You can only do one thing, ignore your feelings. Harder than hell to do, but if in a few years, as you say, if you can be together, then wait for it.
Something is keeping you apart, and that something , right now, is stronger than your relationship.
As long as you are speaking to her everyday, she is in your life, and you don't have any chance of getting over her. You do need to be straight Whit her, and let her know that it is killing you to keep in touch. It might hurt her now, but if you don't lay it on the line, she will think that you are leading her on.
Better to hurt her feelings now, then to do it after she thinks she has a chance.
Good luck, I hope that you can find your way to a peace full resolution.
Just checking, this isn't you "G" is it?
NO, I didn't think so.
2007-01-18 07:58:31 · answer #2 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough. I'm not sure what the situation is you're in, but I agree that sometimes you just need time to finish growing up and experiencing life.
It sounds like you really like this girl. However, if you're not ready to get back together right now just be honest with her. I do have to warn you though, be careful with what you might be giving up. Problems can be worked through and relationships can be taken slow. However, if you let her go (even with the prospect of getting back together in the future) be prepared for the fact that she might not wait for you. Best of luck.
2007-01-18 07:53:37 · answer #3 · answered by reandsmom77 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your gf is wanting to go back out now, today, not a few years down the road. In one part of your letter says you were almost over her, and than in another part you say you truly care! It sounds to me you really don't want to be with her? I guess I would search my feelings and be fair to her, and be final with your answer to her. I doubt if your wanting her to hang around for a couple years for you, that will happen. Sorry!!
2007-01-18 07:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 08:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I think it depends on how old you are.
But really, if you are going to keep talking to her, you may as well be dating her. If you love her, go be with her. If you can't be with her, stop talking to her or you will be miserable forever. Just tell her you need some time away because it is causing you grief.
Also, try asking out somebody else, that's the easiest way to forget.
2007-01-18 07:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by poopfairy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, try to explain it to her. I think it would be good to wait until after a couple years when you're done with whatever it is you're gonna do. If you two really care about each other, I'm sure things will work out on their own. Don't try to force anything.
2007-01-18 07:51:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mizuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still didnt have feelings for her, care for her, and want to be with her then you wouldnt have taken the time to write this question in such depth. This girl is crazy about you, just give her another chance, every one deserves a second chance.
2007-01-18 07:51:58 · answer #8 · answered by its_just_me_218 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if its soo hard to let her go, then why even let her go?!?!? if you guys are going through something, stick together. by doing that, it will make the relationship even stronger. talk to her explain that the way things are going aren't working out. then agree on what might work for both of you and go for it for a couple of weeks. good luck
2007-01-18 07:59:41 · answer #9 · answered by love me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can NOT get over her if your talking to her everyday. You need to cease communication and let it go!!! If your love for each other is not enough to get over whatever you broke up for then you guys need to stop communication so you both can heal and move on.
2007-01-18 07:50:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋