What should i do, since i can't call the cops, because the children would be taken away. i'm 20 yrs old, and i have my mom who drink all the time, and there is no peace, or i can't stop in rest. my older brother 22 he move out and move back in the house, and he lived with dad, who drink so much as my mom. there is no peace in anything when you stay with them. they drive you crazy and make u do crazy stuff, like take drugs or smoke or drink yourself. if I call the cops, they will take away my little sisture, who will be 16 in 4 days. and little brother who is 9, who watch me as a dad. older brother can't help him self and alway yellow and feel like on stress, that the reason he move out and hope he would find peace with my dad, which he didn't. What can i do, to help her (mom) who i live with right now, and my older brother and younger and sis, and forget to say my mom b.f, living with us, who doesn't act as if he is her b.f. tell me if i can help her and how, i tried everthing
2007-01-18 07:25:45 · 5 answers · asked by Alex K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If i do that, everybody even me, i won't have a place to stay, reason i'm staying here, to watch over the children. sooner or later, i will call it, that is a promise if she counting doing drinking. because she drank yesterday and before that, she wasn't drinking for 4 month. but thanks for all your help.
2007-01-18 07:38:58 · update #1
the best place for those children are in a home with out drugs, booze and neglect, which is there if everything you say is true. You need to call Children Protective Services, if you know of this issue you have a responsibility to report this and give your siblings a chance at a better life, they will thank you for it in the long run, even if it takes a few years for them to admit that it was the right thing for you to do . If you don't get them help they will grow up to be just like their parents. That is the vicious cycle of abuse and dependency. YOU NEED TO GET SOMEONE TO INTERVENE ON THEIR BEHALF. NOW
2007-01-18 07:32:06 · answer #1 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tell you that things were going to get better soon, but chances are that they wont until you guys are older and on your own. I have friends that have dealt with this along with my husband. When he was 16 he's father went to jail and his mother just packed her stuff and left. He's older brother and him took shared custody over there 9 yr old sister and life went on. (It's good that you are staying to watch over your younger brother and sister.) Things are much better for my husbands family. All of them are happy know and have kids of there own. There father got out of prison this month actually and is a completely different person. And is rebuilding there relationship. Unfortunately there mother is still a sever alcoholic and causes problems with the whole family. Including me!! Good luck my heart goes out to you!! Stay strong!!!!
2007-01-18 11:01:18 · answer #2 · answered by alaskagirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry , I'M kinda in the same boat as u but I don't have any lil siblings( I guess it's worst for u) and my parents are together. You just need try 2 ignore it because it's Ur moms house. good luck and if u every need some1 2 talk 2 I'm here .~Cassandra~
2007-01-18 07:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by pepperprincess17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you are 20 years old you are legally able to move out. Under these conditions I certainly would.
2007-01-18 07:30:35 · answer #4 · answered by The Masked Marauder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out now. if you can find a place to be able to help your younger siblings. this is a time bomb for you.
2007-01-18 07:35:36 · answer #5 · answered by DASH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋