please nothing negavitve...before i met my b/f i had a ton of friends but when i met him i wanted to spend all my time with him cuz thats when i was most happy,well 2 years later our relationship is crumbling and the only reson i was hanging on was becuase he is all i have! for real! but now it's over, and i want to get over him but how do i do that if i have no g/f to go out and party with, it's just me. i dont want to go back to him but im afriad i will cuz im lonly.
2007-01-18 07:23:39 · 14 answers · asked by CRAZY 8 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i never ditched my friends, i met him my senior year in high school so after we graduated we kinda went out seperate ways, we all became bussy growing up i still talk to some of them but now they are married with kids.
2007-01-18 07:31:08 · update #1
First, stop thinking you need someone to help make you feel better. I don't believe in getting over relationship, but learning how to deal with it, and live with it. I know it's hard to think posetively when you feel the way you do, but it's on you to say enough is enough and I'm tired of feeling this way. If you have or had real friends then they'll still be there for you, you just have to ask for the shoulder to cry on, but if not then they werent your friends.
2007-01-18 07:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have someone...yourself! I know it can be lonely but really you can make a difference for yourself. Were there ever some things you wanted to do but couldn't because you were tied down? Well, now you are free to do them, whatever they are.
Redecorate your apartment, paint the walls, make some pillows, some art for your walls and some curtains. Fix it up how YOU like it in colors that you love. Take some classes. Learn to swing dance, or kickbox or take karate. Maybe take an art class. See if your local library has any book discussion groups or other types of meetings you can attend. In other words, if you get out there and do things, you will feel better about yourself and you will meet people!
Hugs to you, dear. Best wishes!
2007-01-18 15:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by lifeisagift 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Luckily you still have someone, you have yourself. Start doing things, go to college, get a second job (always nice to have a little extra money). Go to the movies by yourself, a musuem, sightseeing. You don't have to have someone else, it's just usually more fun, but that said "more" fun... you can still have fun by yourself. Going to college or getting a part-time job will help fill the void of lonliness plus you'll meet new people. After a week or so, you'll probably be invited to go do stuff with them. Enjoy your time.
2007-01-18 15:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by Copper Jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st off you need to go out and make you some new friends. While your out you don't know what may happen you could met a new male friend. But in order to get over him you need to stop thinking about him.
2007-01-18 15:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by Big Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, I had the same thing going. You can always get out there and talk to new people, making new friends.
Things may look down and terrible, but just be open and positive...a fun and outgoing person. Most people like to be around people like that.
2007-01-18 15:27:17 · answer #5 · answered by Elle S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call up some of your old friends and talk to them. Spend time with your family and make new friends. It will get better!
2007-01-18 15:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look up some of your old friends and see if you can get together again. Go out and meet new people. go places even if you have to go alone. yeah it is weird a first but it gets easier
2007-01-18 15:28:10 · answer #7 · answered by Mike S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would try and talk to all of my old friends and patch things up, then you should all hang out and try and have a good time, and if not in a few weeks look for some fresh blood if you know wat i mean. i hope u feel ok and things work out, i just got over my ex. as well
2007-01-18 15:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Immerse yourself in social situations. Go to the library, YMCA, the mall, and if you are of age the bar.
2007-01-18 15:26:59 · answer #9 · answered by The Masked Marauder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you have to do is meet friends online and go party with them.
2007-01-18 15:29:05 · answer #10 · answered by shyane d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋