My boy friend is going to college and I need help ASAP?

Question

Ok So I'm a junior in High School & I live in Way.... Nothern Wisconsin & My Best Friend & not to mention he's my Boy Friend is a Freshmen in College & He's went to a College that was in Southern Wisconsin by Milwaukee but now he's transfering to a school in New York & I'll only get to see him like once a month I'm planing on going Out there with him this weekend to help him get settled in cause I have a 4 day weekend, & My parents got me plain tickets. but after that I wont get to see him for like another month & I know I can call him & that I can talk to him on FaceBook or MySpace, but its not the same & in 3 months its going to be our 2yr anniversery & I dont know how to deal with seeing him once every other month if I lucky I really need help & I know our relationship can withstand this its just going to be really hard & I could really use advice to help me through this.
& Please Only Answer this if you actually are going to say something that will help no stupid answer
Thnx :)

Ok to answer some questions he has given me a promise ring and the reason he's going to New York is Because for his career its a better school hes going for stuff with anoouncing and radio and all that stuff and he got a large scholarship there. So thats why hes going he's told me if its up to him we will see ecah other @ least once a month and yes he expresses the same feeling as I do he said he's going there the rest of this year and see how it is and he said it seems nice and he said the only thing its missing is me he said it woud be perfect if I was there, and I feel that if he really wants it and if I care about him as much as I do I should let him do it because its something he really wants so yeah

Answer 1

You'll forget about him in time.

Answer 2

Love is hard and it seems that you are missing him a lot and hes not even gone yet,but whats weird is if he really loves you why does he go so far away from you?And does he express the same feelings you have.Has he given you a promise ring to show that his heart is fully with you.Hes growing up and the age difference complicates things because you cant go with him at the same time.I know being in love and if i were in the same situation i don't think i could leave. Granted education is extremely valuable to live a good life and being a great provider for your family.You're still young and need to concentrate on your education instead of going through these type of problems.

Answer 3

Apparently there's a severe shortage of punctuation in Wisconsin....

Aside from that - you'll live. E-mail him now and then, call him some times, too, but otherwise realize that you'll get through this. I can't promise that you two won't break up, but if that happens, you'll still live and recover from it. Life does go on - trust me.

Answer 4

well i understand, i will be going through the same thing soon but if u think that you guys can withstand the distnace, i think its worth it to stay together. youll find time to see eachother as often as you can but you know that if you split up, ull still just be constantly thinking of eachother anyways. I say try it out, im sure itll be worth it

Answer 5

Hey! Im in the same position as you. Its so hard. Its really gonna test your relationship. Something that also helps is write letters to eachother, its so much more personal than and email, and it helps me. Also sending pictures to eachother helps.

Answer 6

Sorry to hear that you're going to break up.

If you didn't realize that, sorry to break the news to you.

He's going to see lots of girls closer to his age and closer to him than you are. Absence may make the heart grow fonder, but its hell on the libido. Opportunity, is going to be knocking on his dorm room almost constantly, it is going to take a really strong sense of morality to keep him true to you.

Answer 7

See other people. It's a fact that long distance relationships never work out.