my gf and I of 11 months love eachother alot. we express it all the time...the problem now is this recently she has been very mad at me for random reasons i know something else is wrong..if she asks me what im doing i tell her, if i ask her wheres shes at what are u up to she thinks im being interrogating, i admit i do call her alot but we live right next to eachother and were happy together, she wants her space and all but i cant just sit here and be like here u go heres all the space you want i want to talk things out with her, our relationship is very serious..but for some reason she doesnt want to and now shes beign stupid and not picking up my phoen calls or anything..we argued talked things out..and shes still mad i dont want to break up with her, and she doesnt either so wat do i do or can someone tlel me whats goign on thru her damn head
2007-01-18 07:17:34 · 4 answers · asked by tidewithbleach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, shes not Pms'ing thast a fact, the thing is that we were on a roll i try to keep it all...Happy or whatever. like ok i have class at 2 today she got class at 2..should i see her as shes walkign and be like wassup? whats wrong because we already did this dont talk to me for 2 weeks bullshit i mean i guess it works beut it was only 2 weeks ago it feels really unstable, i know what she feels she feels im clingy insecure and **** but im not i just give a damn about her so i like to see that everythigns ok with her...so um other than saying give her space, can someone tell me wats going on thru her head whys she doing this?
2007-01-18 07:29:05 · update #1
She's in freak out mode. She needs time to not hear from you, not see you. Let her make the next move-don't call her or anything-just wait. She could be feeling smothered.
2007-01-18 07:22:59 · answer #1 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that another relationship in on the line. Me and my fiance just broke up, we were together just two weeks shy of 11months. He broke up with me because we were always fighting. I was trying everything to fix our relationship. He wasn't trying at all...come to find out he had two girls that he was chatting up on the side. So I hope she doesn't have some guys on the side. However, I don't know what you have tried as far as taking her out and showing her that you care about you two and that you want to stay together, maybe she is just going through something right now. Maybe she just needs some time to think. Maybe you have to ask eachother some questions...Like: Do you really love me? Are you in love with me? Do you want to be with me? stuff like that. I can't really tell you much more, B/c I couldn't save my relationship, But we were fighting over his sister not cleaning up after herself and her boyfriend.
2007-01-18 07:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by Tigerlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her u need some space to think about some things! See how long it takes her to call u back!
2007-01-18 07:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
women are like this every month ,its life,find out when it is and just be nice and bite your tongue it will soon pass ....only for 30 days ...ahhhhh
2007-01-18 07:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Andy K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋