u see i have things to tell him but i just cant seem to get incontact with him i talked to his best ffriend and well he tolled me that he said he didnt break up he just took a time off which for me means the opposite ive called him andtext him but yet he doesnt answer and if he does hell saty quiet what can i do to get him to come over so we could talk??????
2007-01-18 06:15:21 · 12 answers · asked by michii 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Make him an offer he can't refuse.
2007-01-18 06:19:49 · answer #1 · answered by Eva 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact him or leave a text message and tell him you would like to talk to him about the relationship. Give him a date, a time and a place and tell him this will be the only chance to discuss it, if he is a no show you are moving on without him.
If he doesn't show up forget about him and move on, if he can't take the time to talk to you he is not worth anymore of your time. Move on and don't look back, there's always something better out there if you look for it.
2007-01-18 14:43:55 · answer #2 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something to occupy yourself.
and after a while, find someone else. Forget about him for sure.
Let that love die, and mourn for it. and then stand up and be proud of yourself. You definitely need to have the power and strength to make yourself happy. Only happy woman finds nice man, sad woman only gets sympathy.
The guys are just opposite. Sad guys win sympathy from kindhearted women.
2007-01-18 14:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by J F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wants some space. Maybe give him some time and then try to talk to him. If he still doesn't want to, try writing him a letter about what youre feeling?
2007-01-18 14:19:43 · answer #4 · answered by manda48041 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let him have his space for now. Guys don't like obsessive girls so my suggestion would be to stop calling him. It's hard for him to think when you keep calling him and his friends. Just do your own thing for now, and when he's ready...he'll call you. If he never calls you, there's someone better out there for you.
2007-01-18 14:19:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are seriously to needy
men want what they cant have
you two will never work out.
If you were smart you'd reverse it to where you made no contact with him.. and started doing your own thing.
Learn to take the upper hand approach not the needy i'm not independent approach
2007-01-18 14:22:52 · answer #6 · answered by jameses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him time and space. he will call you when he is ready. just leave him a message on his phone telling him that when he is ready to talk that you will be there and you just hope it doesnt take too long. sit back, relax and enjoy some alone time and visit your friends and time will fly.
2007-01-18 14:21:12 · answer #7 · answered by colera667 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit calling him. It works every time. Let him think you're moving on and dealing with it well. Once he realizes that he'll panic and start calling you. I know it's hard but it works.
2007-01-18 14:19:45 · answer #8 · answered by newmom06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinks that ur goin 2 try and get him to go back out with you... maybee he wants to go back out with u but cant for some reason... maybee he wants to talk to u too, but is scared of what might happen... all possibilities, trust me, im a guy. try going to somewer wer he mite be on his own wer he cant get shown up by his mates.
2007-01-18 14:25:01 · answer #9 · answered by Gareth R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him. dont call him...text him... switch roles on him.. try not to get in contact with him for like a month.. if he doenst call back or contact you.. then after that one month span contact him.. He probably needs time off. so give it to him.
2007-01-18 14:24:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just walk up to him and tell him? Surely he is not so inaccessible?
And if you broke up with him, move on, dont flog the dead donkey!
2007-01-18 14:19:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋