he has some diaper fetish or something and its startin to creep me out kinda...cuz i thought he was just goofin at first. but he was walkin around the other day with a load of sh*t in his pants and he thinks its hot if i change him as foreplayo rsomehing idont know. i delt with it for a bit and breathed through it..but now he was talkin last night about me rollin around in it with him...eeewwyt. he was alil drunk i think..but still. i have been drunk and NEVER would have said that in a million years or even thought of that.
aside of this.....he is a sweetheart and just adorable...
but this his fetish is very intense and strong... what do ido??
2007-01-18 06:08:01 · 21 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if a partner's fetish makes you uncomfortable- then say so. if the fetish is still there (rather than just an idle curiosity) after a few weeks (3 at most) then he is not going to give it up. either ditch him or put up with it. either way, if you don't participate, he WILL find someone who will, even if he has to pay her.
susan
2007-01-18 06:13:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you can see yourself in public with a man whose got crap in his drawers. Then go fo it. But you seem pretty creeped out by it as well he'll never change he's just weird like that. I would look into finding another man. Because your is what is known as a fecalpheliac. "someone who enjoys playin in their own feces" It's a disgusting thing So many health concerns as well. The fact that you went along with it once only made him think that you thought it ok. If you do love this guy i would strongly consider talking to him about therapy.
2007-01-18 06:14:20 · answer #2 · answered by ag2588101 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under most circumstances, I would have figured you were just "shittin'" us (ha ha), but there seemed to be some seriousness in your "tone"!!
Fetishes can be fun, but I cannot see anything involving SH*T as being remotely erotic, I'm sorry.............
Christ, what's this world coming too???
Mr Happy
:o)
2007-01-18 06:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love him and can at least placate his diaper fetish stay with him. If it disturbs you greatly, then let him know that you love him but you will never be into his infantilism.
2007-01-18 06:14:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do that! That is just gross. Tell him if you wanted to wipe some a$$, then you would have a baby or work in a nurseing home. That is just nasty, I would NEVER to that and him being in his right mind, I would tell him no or you go.
2007-01-18 06:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well let me tell u...thats some serious S H I T! lol! nah seriously, what the hell are u doing still with that guy??? thats not even a turn on, thats just plain nasty @ss stuff! u just need to dump him and move on to a clean b/F.
2007-01-18 06:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by oc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First off gross!!! Secondly, he needs some professional help. You need to find a real man that's all grown up and isn't going to ask such things of you.
2007-01-18 06:15:30 · answer #7 · answered by flowerintherain02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't deal with his fetish,the relationship won't last very long.Don't do it if you are not into it!He should find someone with similar"interests".
2007-01-18 06:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of that effin weirdo seriously..hes not 8 months old anymore..get someone mature..and changing a diaper isnt foreplay its childish and if you do that stuff your an idiot honestly. Your both really really really STUPID!
2007-01-18 06:12:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let this guy know that you are not into this,you like him and think he's sweet but no thanks.Let him also know to change his own diapers.
Sorry to hear about this.
2007-01-18 06:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by Dawn l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋