Adults only???

Question

i have been with my girl for oh 6 years. i love her very much and find her very attractive. the only problem is she won't have a threesome with another women. she says she will not ever have sex with another women. how can i get her to do this?? how can i talk her into this or seduce her into it??

p.s. my girl has told me that if i do not stop pestering her about this, she will leave me. does this sound fair??

Answer 1

Understand relationships are about comprimise. Any relationship, you have to give up something you want to continue any adult relationship. Whether it is with a co-worker or a friend or a girlfriend. The difference between children and adults is that adults understand the meaning of comprimise. Children want something and will not settle for less.
If she says no... then respect her choice. (or get her really really drunk)

Answer 2

Anyone that says never is certain to eat those words.

At any rate, a 3sum is not like asking to get a new puppy or a Plasma TV. If she is a really conservative lover with you, your chances are pretty low. Have you talked about it during sex? Have your ever put her in a what if situation? Do/have your watched movies that show it? Pulling it off can be several years in the making. You might even have to find out how hers girls friends feel about, cause if it happens it might be with one of them she would be willing to do it with for the sake of comfort.

All I can say is you either have your work cut out for your with her or you need to find someone else. Having a cute, mutual female friend to attempt to seduce her might not be bad idea either. There is no real solution, but don't give up, because you won't get anywhere that way either.

Answer 3

If she's not interested, you shouldn't push her. Stop obsessing about a fantasy and satisfy that need by watching porno movies. If that still doesn't do it for you and you'd rather have a threesome than stay with your girl, leave her and find a freaky hoe or two

Answer 4

I think you should just keep it a fantasy. Sharing your bed with other people most of the time brings trouble into the relationship. Even if she agreed to do it, what if she really enjoys herself and then decided she wants the girl not you.. Then you lose her. Also she might start wanting to do it more often, and with different people, eventually you are going to feel like you are not satisfying her and jealousy will start to occur.

Plus, if you love somebody you would not want them to do anything that makes them feel uncomfortable.

Answer 5

If you "love her very much", honor and respect her wishes. If you must have a threesome, then find two other people.

Answer 6

if you love her that means you should respect her and her wishes..
so drop it unless you want to loes her. trust me, this is a huge turn-off for me too..when a guy won't drop the idea of a threesome.. esp since if i'm sleeping with him i know if he can actually handle two woman or not..

Answer 7

6 years means nothing to you then nor does she.
You have no idea what love actually is
I hope she dumps you and gets a real man that she deserves, not stay with a wide boy who is only thinking of himself
go figure

Answer 8

Easy..you find 2 other girls and have your threesome without her.. .HA HA HA serious bro if she doesn't want a 3some don't force it...also why have a 3some with someone you really care about it will only tear you apart.... fool

Answer 9

If she is not comfortable with it, don't force the issue. Give her time and she might rethink her position. However, even if she still doesn't want to participate, respect her decision.

Answer 10

Well let's see...tell her that you will have sex with another man first... then she has to have sex with a woman. Sounds good??