He is usually so understanding, and always tries to please me...but he is sooo lazy to apply any...I tried getting him fancy bottles and everything...he wouldnt budge!! I cant take it...when he takes his shirt off...welll its gross!!! he says he doesnt need it!! last night i was so fed up I sprayed Lysol while he was in bed...(he heates it) so he can unnderstand what a bad smell is...now he is upset..help me...I dont wanna be rude...I AM pregnant thats it////any advice thank
OH WELL< WEIRD ENOUGH???
2007-01-18 06:01:32 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
I'd make him sleep on the couch regardless of whether I was pregnant or not! And it's not you being rude, by the way.. It's him!!
2007-01-18 06:04:36 · answer #1 · answered by tmac 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if you say he smells, doesn't he realize this could hurt his job, his relationship with customers, and turn away friends?
There is a wonderful, all natural product that needs to be applied only once a week or so (depending upon activity level and the season). You can buy at a local health food store (call first - not all carry it) or on the web. It's called Lavlin. See if you can get him to agree to use it once a week.
If not, here is a suggestion . . . come up from behind, act like you are being sexy, hug him under the arms, and then quickly apply deoderant!!!!
Does he have a brother or someone else in his family where you could do an "intervention" so that he knows it's not just you?
2007-01-18 06:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by kramerdnewf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that your pregnant and odd smells really bother you and make you not only irritable but very nauseous. If he is not willing to put on the deodorant than having a shower before coming to bed would be an alternative (and would be greatly appreciated ). Wearing PJ's and not crossing the line would work but he would have to wash the sheets every day or so.
If he still refuses tell him the couch is his only other option, tell him to go for it, (you like the bed all to yourself anyways).
2007-01-18 06:12:19 · answer #3 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EEEEEWWWW.....Now that is grose regardless if you are pregnant or not!.....maybe he is alergic and deordorant make him ichy theres many guys like that buy him DEGREE sensitive sport it costs like 2.00-3.00 dollars at Walmart he wont feel it and it will smell very good. Also, you should make him put it on after a shower asap. If he does not want to cry and make him feel bad or force it under his pit!...after all guys are guys!.....I am sorry for you I hated smelling bad oders while pregnant even if the smell is a block down pregnant women smell it as if they are in their face.. Any ways Take care of you and your baby ... best of wishes and hope you get many baby gifts.
2007-01-18 06:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain to him that unusual odors cause pregnant women to be sick to their stomach. For some reason your sense of smell goes into overtime while you are pregnant. I could not stand the smell of raw hamburger meat. I could not go to a public restroom because of the cherry deodorant that most restaurants use in the bathrooms. Both of theses smells made me very ill.
2007-01-18 06:07:06 · answer #5 · answered by saved_by_grace 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That just sounds really gross. Why doesn't he wear deodrant. I think others must think he stinks. Tell him to do others a favor and wear some deodarant. Your not being rude telling him, your giving everyone else a break from the smell.
2007-01-18 06:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh, that is so gross. Get him some ax spray and spray it on him. Atleast thats something.
Or just make him use it. God, it takes two seconds to put on deoderant.
My husband didnt wear any when i first met him, because he read that aluminum in it can give you alshiemers disease. I got him regular old spice deoderant, it has none in it. I dont know if thats your husbands issue, but its something to keep in mind.
2007-01-18 06:06:18 · answer #7 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
even if you are pregnant or not pregnant he should ALWAYS wear deoderant!!
that is really gross.. men have a stronger smell than women.. especially if he sweats.
buy him either "tag" or "AXE". it smells just like cologne.. it's a body spray, so can put on underarms and body.. it's a very nice scent..
he is gross.. tell him to grow up..
2007-01-18 06:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by green eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would attack him with it i am sure you could get his armpits i guess he doesn't understand what its like the first time i was pregnant i made my hubby change deodrants bc i usually love his but i couldn't stand it he got to switch back afterwards maybe you could buy the spray kind and get him after he palls asleep isn't he worried other people are smelling him too ?
maybe you could get a few friends to comment on the smell
2007-01-18 06:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by momma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 10:59:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋