The chase is over and we're in a relationship. How can i keep him wanting me w/out playing hard to get?

Question

It's already close to 2 months now that we've been in this relationship. I want to know how I can continually give him challenges (not overbearing) enough to make the relationship alive, fun, and seems like we're still new in the relationship (aka fire still burning). This in return will make me feel like there is a relationship happening and hopefully for him not just another accomplished goal, but a continual reach for the ultimate.

Thanks to your answers (if you have any) in advance. It would truly give me an insight.

Answer 1

you allways gotta keep him wanting more, just like us guys keep you girls wanting more, never give it to him all, keep him guessing.

Answer 2

I think it's important to continue to have your own life, do things with friends, have alone time, so that you do not see too much of each other. I have been with my boyfriend for a year, and it's not quite as exciting as in the beginning, but we have kept it fun. We typically see each other 3 time a week and do a lot of different activities--play Scrabble, go out dancing, dinner, a movie, meet friends for games or bowling, hike, take short road trips. I think what has helped the most is that I never bash on him to my friends--not that I'm not tempted once in a while--I try to say positive things that make me feel lucky. I also frequently tell him how lucky I am to have found him. I know my bf also feels lucky when I dress up and do my hair before we go out--it shows that I am still putting effort into our relationship.

Answer 3

These issues are always tricky, beacause he may think sometimes that you are playing games. All i suggest is that you don't over power each other by hanging out 24/7 have an unexpected night out with the girls then go to his after and give him a sexy treat.

Set up a date night once every two weeks and do somethng totally new and different?

I think with you spontenaeity is very important, so just have fun with him.

Good Luck

Answer 4

it will be over in two months. You just started the relationship and you feel soooo insecure that you need to come up with new ideas. Hey we have all been experimenting for years there is nothing new. Looks like you need to finish school first

Answer 5

Some fun tips? Text little teases to his phone of what you want to do to him; Go get some lengerie, and go over to his house in really scrubbie clothes, and when your a lone, show him whats eally on; when he wants to hang out, say your busy, he will wnat you more, plus he will work harder for you ect.

Answer 6

I have a simple answer
lay low,don't see him so much,stop calling him 20 times a day,
get a hobbie,do something with your time other than think about what he is doing.And most of all stop expecting so much out of love.

Answer 7

Your relationship should be flourishing on its own. If you have to try to do things just to keep it "alive" or to keep him interested, then you really don't have much of a relationship.

Answer 8

oh just quit the game playing and be yourself. you won't be the same person every day so he shouldn't get bored. if he does than maybe you're not supposted to be in a relationship with him.

Answer 9

you will find with a man that we want what we cant have . so if u don't give him what he wants all the time he will want it more . but don't cross the line . u must give in cus if not he will look some ware els for it ..

Answer 10

I think that your female mind is working overtime. If you have a truly decent man, scheming is not gong to work and will most likely backfire.

Answer 11

Guys always want more so it really isn't a problem---it's more or less the girls that think things get old.