soo all you girls, if you have a guy friend who is close to you and is like a really good freind or even best friend, do you think its possible to ever get feelings for him? cuz im really good friend with a girl, but i have started to fall for her and i dont think she sees me the way im starting ot see her. she has also been hoping aorund differnt guys lately and she seems kinda confused from her last break up, how can i help her relized im here?
2007-01-18 05:52:48 · 11 answers · asked by ampedaboutit 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. absolutely. i am in love with my best friend (hes a guy).
i dont know how to help you get her im stuck with that myself... but u have to remember, that relationships come and go and can be hard, but friendshhip is easy to wrk with, so good luck
I HOPE YA GET HER!
good luck
also, tell us what u do... im interested
2007-01-18 05:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by brunette_attraction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I had my BEST friend fall in love with me, and it COMPLETELY ruined everything between us. I love him, but only as a friend, and I never saw him as anything other than a friend. He just wasn't my type for a romantic relationship. He made things really really awkward between him and one of his best friends, because i began to date the other guy. It was awful, and now I can't talk to him without feeling like I ruined his life because after I turned him down he went completely emo.
If you think she may be into you that way, or that you are her type, go for it, spend a day with her, just as friends, and then at the end of the day try kissing her, or telling her that you like her. Just make sure that she isn't dating anyone at the time.
Good luck. DON'T DO ANYTHING IF YOU THINK IT WILL KILL YOUR FRIENDSHIP. seriously. I miss my best friend.
2007-01-18 06:02:40 · answer #2 · answered by saber1002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to tell you this, but once a girl decides to have a male as a friend that's all it can ever be. We all made the mistake of dating a friend and it never works out. You should just realize that she isn't into you like that and move on. Thank you and good luck.
2007-01-18 05:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an old girl, I can tell you "Friends" are the best lovers, and husbands.
Before I got married, I had a male friend. He was more like a girlfriend, than any female friend I have ever had. I could not imagine us getting together. Maybe she believes secretively that you are gay.
2007-01-18 05:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't! The only thing you can do is to let her realize that on her own. Try going out on a double date. See if she get jealous see you with another girl. If she does than you know she wants you or has some kind of feelings for you.
2007-01-18 05:59:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she likes you, you wouldnt have to remind her that you are here. she would automatically think about you in her time of need. trust me, i have a guy who is a really good friend of mine, everyone says he's in love with me but i will never adress the situation because i dont feel the same way. if you tell her, and she doesnt feel the same, she will start to back away from you.
2007-01-18 06:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is never a good idea to mix sex with a friendship.What usually happens is that you end up not even being able to be friends again.She is your friend keep it that way.Good luck to you.
2007-01-18 05:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel. I 've liked my best guy friend and he knows it. He just broke up with his girlfriend and he knows im here for him.
2007-01-18 05:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by Only1 Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe writing her a letter will help if you are kind of shy to tell her try the letter,write all your fealings towards her,and try to be gentle.
2007-01-18 06:00:45 · answer #9 · answered by ema 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah its defentely possible to fall for ur best friend...... they give u comfort that u can seem to find in other ppl......try to make her realize it bc once u have a gf then will she see wat she lost
2007-01-18 05:57:44 · answer #10 · answered by Cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋