how should you raise your kids/?

Question

i dont thinkim ready for this then i have a hard time loving her as a baby it still feels like its all baout me i still wnat to party ect youd think id had learned by now and i dont know im pretty lazy caint i just let her run wild and laugh at all the funny **** she does is this screwed up maybe my opinion will change its only been three weeks ilove her i do i wouldnt trade her for anything but???

Answer 1

with love, affection and a tender heart.

Answer 2

You are young but you have a personal commitment to your child to always put them first. Also you could be suffering for post pardon depression, talk to you doctor he may prescribe you meds that may make you fill better. There is nothing wrong with wanting some personal time once and a while, get a sitter and go out and have fun. It may help to talk to other young mothers in similar situations. Call you local health department or DHS to see if the are support groups in your area. Never be afraid to ask for help, God give strength to weak.

Answer 3

This is how I would raise my kids.

1) No cellular phones will be give to my kids never.
Cellular phones to not make children smarter or safer. Parents are home do.

2) Children must learn to respect their parents and other people's feeling.

3) If most parents want peace for their children, then preach and act like you do.

Renounce violence and this war we are fighting.
There can be not peace without protesting those want war for the wrong reasons.

4) Turn off the stupid and violate music,movies,tv shows that preach violence is the only way to gain victory in this world.

5) Do not punish your children, if their intentions are pure.
Yes, Kids want to freedom to do the things that you may not like.
Punish them only if they have no good reason for doing something you told them not do.

if their reason for doing it was to help others , then only punish them if it was a selfish reason.

6) Teach you children not to fight, but defend themselves by using the nature human rules and laws to their advantage.

Teach them to use their smart minds and not their bodies to come up with new solutions to societal problems.

Answer 4

What kind of question is that? If your asking this question, then join a parenting class for some advice. I mean its common sense, raise them with a loving heart, caring hands, and tender lovin words.

Answer 5

everything stated is really good, I would add one more....and that is a firm hand from time to time.....there are times as a parent when you just have to be the a**hole....or at least that is what the kids will think of you.....but they will realize sooner or later why you do things the way you do.

Answer 6

with honesty & integerity,most of all love!