My best friend of 17years has fallen out with me because i did not rejoice in her relationship.
she recently got engaged to her ex boss and she wanted me to be excited for her but i wasnt thrilled
her ex boss has recently gone bankrupt and is being investigated for fraud, he is twice divorced and has three kids that he never sees or pays child support for he has numerous creditors and friends who he owes thousands.
my friend is a professional, very responsible and very attractive young woman and this is very out of character for her
i am very confused and concerned for her
but now i am distressed because she is upset with me and wont talk my calls.
how do i mend my frienship
please advise
2007-01-18 05:45:00 · 11 answers · asked by cuckoo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry about the spelling mistakes
i am usually not so clumsy
2007-01-18 05:56:58 · update #1
this is a tricky one!
you say this is out of character for you friend what spell has he got her under?
it sounds like she is blinded by love he must be a very clever man and have the gift of the gab. if this is the case she will not believe you.
as she is refusing to see or talk to you the only thing you can do is wait.
give her a bit of time then try again tell her you only wish her well and will always be there for her if she still refuses to talk to you then all you can do is be there for her when (if) things go wrong.
never say i told you so. if you are true friends then you will make up eventually
good luck.
does her family know all these things about him?
2007-01-18 06:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres not alot you can other than just be there for her, you shouldnt suddenly change your tune and say you're happy for her if you're not as that will just leave you under more strain, see how it pans out and keep a discreet distance, when it goes **** up which I think it may well do then dont judge, just be there and listen
2007-01-18 13:49:55 · answer #2 · answered by lizarddd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to sort out her own mistakes. Of course you are not happy, you can see the situation as it is. He is no doubt one of these people very good at getting people to like him, and women falling for his charm, which is the trait of all conmen. He will no doubt given her 'his side' of the situation.
Love is blind so they say, and until your friend can see sense, nothing will stand in her way. Hopefully, he will end up, in prison.
2007-01-18 13:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by Thia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A true friend is a friend no matter what. You do not turn your back on someone for a reason like that. Love unconditionally. It will probably take a lot to get her back, if you even can.
sorry and good luck
2007-01-18 13:50:51 · answer #4 · answered by bb77blueeyes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just wait and see if she comes crawling to you when her and her boyfriend don't work out. Then she will be like i'm sorry for getting mad at you. She'll be back when they don't work out. Watch!
2007-01-18 13:52:26 · answer #5 · answered by nicole_furney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do every thing you can to try to talk to her go to were she work and try to talk or call or go to her house one or the other and get your friend ship back together.
2007-01-18 13:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
jst be happy 4 her and show support she'll *** round if she gets hurt she'll feel really bad for not taking ur advice and she will listen to u in future gd luk
xx
2007-01-18 13:53:42 · answer #7 · answered by crazybillibob_123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give her a bit of space , she,ll come round and try and be happy for her even if your not. try going out with other mates for a change of sceanary
2007-01-18 13:50:39 · answer #8 · answered by shayla x x 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her pretty straight, that you don't approve but your not going to try to change anything. And that just because you care about her enough to worry, she shouldn't be mad.
2007-01-18 13:54:04 · answer #9 · answered by Aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would tell her and say im just concerned im not sayin break up with him cos of me just here my advice
2007-01-18 13:52:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋