18 just ahd ababy jan 1
2007-01-18 05:32:04 · 6 answers · asked by marlene r 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
i still wanna party but i caint now cuase dcs is involved is that bad i just take care of her and do the best i can but i still want my time too anyone fell my drift
2007-01-18 12:31:03 · update #1
WHOA! You need to step back from your situation for a minute... you worded that to where it sounds like you don't want the responsibility of a child!... i had my first son at 18, loved/bathed/fed/clothed/been with him everyday since with great pride and joy but yeah- at least once you think: God my life is over! everyone else is out having a good time and I am stuck at home with a little stinky thing attached to my boob!- but then the moment passes and you look at your baby and you want to be the best mom you can be... it sounds like you got alittle postpartum to me, but if you keep having these thoughts or feelings you need to seek help... through a counselor or trusted friend... if you dont want the job M.O.M., then you need to make the right decision for your baby... ADOPTION
2007-01-18 12:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my 1st baby at 18, and had 3 kids by my 21st bday. I never felt sorry for having kids at an early age. I've loved every minute of it! I am now 30 and have 6 kids; my youngest being my twin 4 year old girls! And I'm wanting at least 1 more. It was rough at times, but I still wouldn't change a thing!
2007-01-18 17:26:21 · answer #2 · answered by JeffHardy4Eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's call post partum depression and you probably had it when you were pregnant called prenatal depression. I would seek help and medication, because it'll just get worse. If you don't think you are like that, then don't worry the months don't go by fast, but the child grows and you'll be able to play with her/him in about 9 months. The baby just cries or you are not getting any sleep don't worry, you'll look back on this and laugh. Pull it through. I had my son at 18 and my daughter at 19, and it was tough, but I got through it.
2007-01-18 14:27:29 · answer #3 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a child at fifteen and then another at seventeen. Believe me it was hard to adjust to especially the first few months. I was still in my high school raising two children. It is stressful and at time you may feel unhappy. But as they grow and you will look back and realise that it isn't hard and will want more kids. I say by 3 months of having your child you will be very happy and can't imagine life with out them. I'm twenty-two now its wonderful having them.
2007-01-18 14:16:36 · answer #4 · answered by smwolf_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 18 with a 3 month old baby girl and pregnant with my other baby dat is due in 4 months
2007-01-18 17:13:05 · answer #5 · answered by ~L3_L3~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 19 yeras old and i have a 3 year old and i love her and wouldnt change her for the world
2007-01-18 13:36:08 · answer #6 · answered by hollaatyagirlt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋