She's absolutely GORGEOUS, and i know its not just me that thinks so. She doesnt like when i call her beautiful and just denies it or says "whatever" and i cant stand it. I feel wrong just letting it go...please help me :(
2007-01-18 05:17:27 · 13 answers · asked by austin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can understand her side of things. I'm not a total beauty queen, but I do get a fair share of compliments on my looks. These comments bother me because: 1. they don't seem sincere (like they may cover a hidden agenda); 2. they seem shallow (there are loads of other things to compliment a woman on); and 3. I get tired of hearing the same s*** over and over again (some originality, please!). Your gf may also be rather modest and not enjoy being the center of attention like that (I don't).
If she doesn't like it, you shouldn't feel wrong letting it go - you should feel wrong speaking to her in a way she doesn't want to be spoken to. Make her FEEL beautiful instead of taking the shortcut and just telling her about it!
2007-01-18 05:27:47 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is, she thinks she's fat, and that you're telling her she's beautiful just to be nice. Don't worry. You're not wrong. I have a friend like that. Just be patient and let her come to her senses. The only thing you can do is say "You're beaautiful, and I'm not saying it just to be nice," Good luck! I hope your girlfriend relizes how beautiful she really is one day!
2007-01-18 05:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the next time you tell her how beautiful she is and she tries to just blow it off, get her attention and explain to her that you are not just being cute, that you really mean this, and tell her how you feel about her. This way in the future she will just blush or say thank you, or maybe just kiss you. She may just think you are being nice.
2007-01-18 05:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by casady96 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stand her infront of a (big) mirror and stand behind her whilst giving her a cuddle - tell her why you think she's so beautiful.......
'look at your eyes, they sparkle'........'you have the sweetest smile'
you get the idea :)
she probably will be embarassed 'cos you're making her stand there looking at herself but it will make her feel better inside and she can see why you are attracted to her.
2007-01-18 05:23:14 · answer #4 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop it
Don't call her beautiful, instead call a fat or not so looking girl beautiful in front of her
2007-01-18 05:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Kewl guy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe she wants you to be more in tuned with other things about her. Maybe she thinks you are with her because you think she is so "beautiful"....tell her she's sexy, you love her laugh...give her another reason you are attracted to her.
2007-01-18 05:21:21 · answer #6 · answered by amanda r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of it will be stressful being away out of your gf for see you later, and of direction, you start to rigidity from time to time. i think of your lady buddy ought to understand that it fairly is stressful being removed from her, and you may get jealous from time to time whilst she calls different females appropriate. you're actually not loopy, particularly purely purely curious and in contact because of the fact the different female exchange into her ex. i think of you ought to have faith that your lady buddy is staying dedicated to you and attempt to not trouble approximately it too lots. c:
2016-10-31 10:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes stuff like that can push a girl away, affter all maybe she wants you to say something about her personality ? thats not something you need to tell a girl everyday .... if she is pretty just be glad she is urs!!!
2007-01-18 05:22:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
CALL HER A CAB..... ( pay the cabbie enough to get her to her shrink!!). Pretty is,as pretty does....and I feel you should take her down a notch or two. Anyone who answers with a "WHATEVER!"..obviously has problems, and is vain, and conceited.....
2007-01-18 07:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by Judy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she doesnt have any self esteem or she's fishing for compliments, I'd quit telling her she's beautiful and see what she does
2007-01-18 05:22:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋