ok i have a boyfreind n he says he loves me.... he buys me things and we see each other every week... hes nice sweet n kind... we have been going out for about 2 months.... how do i no if he really likes me or if he just wants a flirt type of thing?
2007-01-18 05:13:50 · 8 answers · asked by SofaKingBored23 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
anyone can give you gifts and comments, but it shows they care when they show interest in what you do. Go out of their way to do things for you. you know show some effort. they think about you first and everyone else comes after.
2007-01-18 05:18:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all the fact that he buy's you material thing's does not mean that he loves you.Love is trust,respect,honesty,emotions not money and material thing's.Re-read what you wrote you said that he told you that he loves you.The best way to find out exactly how he feel's and what his intensions are is simply for you to talk to him and ask him these questions.If you are gonna be in a relationship you have to know how to and beable to communicate with eachother.Good luck to you.
2007-01-18 05:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, what do you do when you see each other? if he expects a bj every time you come visit, then no.
if you two actually talk about things that are going on in your life, stresses or problems or happy things, too, then there's probably something real there
2007-01-18 05:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by razzamatazzzz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the problem? If you have a guy buying you things and wanting to spend time with you he likes you. Take it slow and dont rush things is the key to keeping him.
2007-01-18 05:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by evilgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hun you need time for that one. i have been married 11 yrs and well i just now found out that my husband really does love me i always thought he married me cuz his dad liked me soo much and he wanted to make his dad happy before he died. well he had to shoot his most loved dog ever cuz she had gotten mean with me and our kids and well was down right jealous and nipped our son. and sad as it seems that is what reall proved to me that he loved me it takes some thing different for each person to just know that they are loved. pray about and seek jesus for that answer that you need.
2007-01-18 05:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by emotionalyhurtmom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to trust him. it sounds like he does. you shouldn't wonder about this if nothing weird is happening.
2007-01-18 05:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he likes you, because otherwise he wouldn't have done all those things. he likes you!
2007-01-18 05:19:56 · answer #7 · answered by Masha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't!
2007-01-18 05:17:10 · answer #8 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋