Who can say whether or not your child will go through bouts of depression as you are. We are born with different levels of serotonin (happy juice). There a lot of things that can throw you off kilter. You have to remember that children pick up everything their parents do so if they see you acting depressed and having an outlook on life less than pleasurable they will tend to feel the same way. Negativity will beget negativity in a way. Try to always have an upbeat outlook and perhaps don't let your depression manifest itself around your child. Perhaps having a new life to nurture will help you let go of your depression. Having a child and helping him/her to grow and learn about the world around them can be a wonderful experience. Create a positive environment around the child and they will have less of a chance of falling into the depressed state.
2007-01-18 05:22:36
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answered by paco 1
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There are some theories that certain people have a genetic pre-disposition for major depression; but even if this is the case, it doesn't mean that your child definitely would get depression.
The best thing you can do right now is to continue to get treatment for your depression and if the treatment isn't working then get help from another therapist. This is not only for your own benefit but will be beneficial for your child too because you want to be in the best emotional health that you can be to help raise a child. Even if your child does have a predisposition for depression, you raise him or her in the same way that you would a child without the predisposition. With love, patience and consistent guidance. :)
The good thing is that because of your own depression, you will know of the signs of depression to look for in your own child. But,on the other hand, try not to be overly watchful because all kids have their own unique personalities and also their moods can change in a heartbeat as they grow and develop.
I think it's great that you are so concerned already about your child and the main thing I would suggest is to relax and look forward to the many upcoming joys of parenthood.
2007-01-18 05:19:33
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answered by Anonymous
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I do not feel persistent melancholy has some thing to do with spirituality. I suffered from extreme put up partum melancholy which became 'persistent' and lasted close to ten years! Depression mediciation helped within the quick time period and speak treatment helped a few too. Then I went to a health care professional who did a entire chemical make-up and helped steadiness the matters that had turn out to be unbalanced in the course of my first being pregnant. I feel therapy must no longer be used as a bandaid and God had not anything to do with the health problem or the healing.
2016-09-08 01:17:38
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answered by kearney 3
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i also suffer from depression and have a family history of depression too, from my uncles, aunts, grandmothers on both sides, and of course me, my child, early on, suffered from depression. I am very open about my illness, i think it's important for people to understand the condition, and i've talked openly about it with my kids, so when they ever experience an episode of depression, they will know what it is, so i suggest being open about it, educate your children, and offer all the love and support that they need.
It is possible that your children may not be afflicted witht this illness, just be aware of it, and have a happy life, don't look for something that may never happen, enjoy being a dad.
2007-01-18 05:17:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Over the last five years I had begun to have increasingly withdraw into a downward spiral of depression..
But now with the method I can fully focus my energy and thoughts into a decisive line on how to make my life better constantly. And it works like magic! I'm beginning to attract people to me once again and things have just been looking up since then.
Helping you eliminate depression?
2016-05-16 09:22:56
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answered by Anonymous
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Depression is hereditary. I was adopted the day I was born, just found my biological family....9 living...6 suffer from it including my mother. I was almost relieved knowing I'm not nuts, it's in the gene pool. My daughter suffers from it too...her signs started showing early, mine started around 8yrs old. Just watch for the signs...your child may get lucky and be fine. I have two other children that are fine.
2007-01-18 05:11:55
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answered by Marti 2
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mental illnesses are hereditary and a child exposed to depression could be affected while growing up. If it is just a temporary depression over recent problems then don't be as worried, but if you have no idea why you are depressed then seek assistance.
2007-01-25 14:56:08
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answered by iamspiderdad 1
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There are so many wonderful books and teaching material in the world to help you learn how to deal with your child's development in a POSITIVE way so that you are able to build a POSITIVE FOUNDATION for your child.
He or she will learn by your example so if you are inclined to voice yourself in a negative way through their life... they too will learn to see the world in this negative way.
Determine to ACT and not REACT based on your emotions. Your child does not have to suffer with depression as you have. In fact, as you determine to remain positive in your child's presence... this may be the very thing to help change your perspective on the world around you.
Bless you and your desire to be a father, a good father.
2007-01-18 05:12:00
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answered by NONAME 4
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There certainly could be a genetic predisposition in your
family. No need to worry, though. Keep an eye on the
symptoms you now recognize and if you see them talk
with your kid(s) about it. When they move out of the house
it is good to mention the problems you had so they know
what is going on if it affects them when you can no longer
watch over them daily.
2007-01-18 05:09:52
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answered by Anonymous
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Genetics are always a coin toss. There really isnt much you can do to prevent it however when you do have a child be aware of the signs and be there for your child so you can help them understand what is going on.
2007-01-18 05:10:01
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answered by b 4
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