how can you tell? like i mean how can you know for sure thats the only reason why hes trying to get with you. [ for my friend not me.]
2007-01-18 04:51:06 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if hes breathing.
2007-01-18 04:53:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should easily be able to tell by his listening skills. If he isn't really answering your questions or eagerly having a conversation with you, then its purely lust, i'd say. You can also tell if he's only into the body by WHAT he talks about. If its all about how you look hot and sexual inuendos then its all about getting into those pants. Of course, ALL guys think about this, but the ones that are respectful and treat you like a special friend and listen and try to do things for you are going to be the type that are less focused on "getting some". Also.. a big thing is see how he acts with his buddies. That is a definite clue into the mind of a guy.
2007-01-18 04:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he tries to get intimate from the very beginning and avoids you when you turn him down it should be a BIG wake up call to what he wants. Remember, some guys will keep trying for a while and that is still all they want.
2007-01-18 04:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys right from the beginning try to get too physical ............ i mean if you are kissing he will go for you bra and touch you at places .......its difficult to jot it down but usually they are very impatient and that you can easily make out and some guys are too sweet and give an impression of being too nice but this doesn't last long ...test him tell him that you are not comfortable with sex and just wanna know each other more if he sticks around then he is genuine if not then..........
2007-01-18 05:03:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will be very flattering and persistant in a sexual way and tell a woman what he thinks they would want to hear and more than likely be a very smooth talker and very touchy feely. Hope this helps.
2007-01-18 04:56:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are very sly in this department. It is hard to really know. Let him wait and wait, if getting in her pants is the goal, he will eventually give up.
2007-01-18 04:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Floss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't comment or appreciate anything about you other than physical appearance.
If he you can't figure out why he likes you when he doesn't even know what is your most valued quality.
Or lastly, when there is something that you want of his that is also not appreciating his best quality.
2007-01-18 04:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by elfquest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...is he a guy? ...then he's trying..or hoping to get in your friends pants....he may really like her...and not wanna use her...but ...all in all...he does in some way just wanna get in her pants...its just the way it is =) To keep from getting used though...don't make it so easy..if he's willing to do the hugs...the dating...the good times...the whatever without the getting in the pants..then he's prolly not just out to use her.
2007-01-18 04:55:14 · answer #8 · answered by kora_tori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll know if the only thing he wants to talk about around you is sex and he's always complementing about the *** on another girl or saying he could 'get with' any girl(s) he wants.
2007-01-18 04:57:28 · answer #9 · answered by deahwest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesnt act interested in anything else or he only talks about sex. if the only time he spends with you is making out or in bed - thats a real good sign
2007-01-18 04:55:02 · answer #10 · answered by kd baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a dick he wants to get into your pants. But you are the "gatekeeper" and can let in one, two, three, or as many as you want in. BTW it works both ways...
2007-01-18 05:10:16 · answer #11 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋