if your in a relationship for some time and you end up getting hurt real bad. do you tend to forgive or forget? do you stay in it, or leave it?
2007-01-18 04:47:19 · 15 answers · asked by Spirit 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Generally speaking, the only reason to be in a relationship is that you enjoy the time you spend with the other person... If you are getting pain or any other non-enjoyment... why would you stay???
My philosophy is "I will be here as long as I'm happy".. consequently, don't take me for granted and treat me the way you want to be treated.
2007-01-18 04:52:24 · answer #1 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgiveness is solid bit I in simple terms forgive and unwell in no way act an identical around them my mom used to hit ne while i became 3 and that i do no longer have confidence her I do something at the back of her back so I in simple terms forgive yet I additionally forget approximately!
2016-12-12 14:26:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it all just depends on what the situation is. If I feel as though it was done intentionally then I will..... well honestly i will hold a grudge for a long time, but eventually I will forgive. It's not in my Christian character to not forgive.
2007-01-18 04:55:37 · answer #3 · answered by FoxE_single _lady37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you admit he hurt you really bad, then you have to ask yourself, if he is worth, given a second chance and you deeply love him, and you know he loves you. Then you decide to take that chance and make it work, because you know he wont hurt again. But if you now he will hurt you again, and has done it before...girl leave him....its not worth getting hurt again.
i went through getting hurt by my husband on our first year of marriage, he was talking to another girl behind my back, he never cheated but the fact that he kept it from me really hurt me. now i know he loves me and he has tried everything to gain my trust back, and because i love him, i gave him a chance, as long as he does not do that sh** again, and he does not cheat on me, becaquse then i will leave him, no matter if it hurts. Bt you need to allow yourself to make the right decision, and know how many times have you been through this and if its worth it. This is the first time he did soething to me, i mean it was just talking but the fact is that it was behind my back, and that was wrong, but i am learning to forget, becuz i did forgive. Girl make your choice. good luck!xoxoxoxo
2007-01-18 04:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by dream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgive and forget.. I usually don't stay in it though....Leave
2007-01-18 04:50:28 · answer #5 · answered by amylr620 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always forgive.
Except right now- im not forgetting to good
which doesnt make a very good relationship.
2007-01-18 04:50:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive and then forget.
2007-01-18 04:50:52 · answer #7 · answered by bargod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how deep your love for each other... if you keep on forgiving, you'll keep getting hurt... but forgetting him doesnt make you happy either... so its up to you to make the decision... but you can give him another chance and dump him the secong time he did it ^.~ he's not worth it...
2007-01-18 04:52:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the depth of the hurt, what caused it, and what he did to you....
Somethings, like abuse, either verbal or physical, are NEVER ok...never, ever, ever....did he cheat on you? You're better off without him...if he can do it once, he can surely do it again....remember, guys always want what they think they cannot have....
But never let anyone, EVER abuse you in any way.....
2007-01-18 04:53:41 · answer #9 · answered by Toots 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget. try to forget the person ever existed
2007-01-18 04:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋