regarding of money .....?

Question

my bf is having some finincal's problem ...
and i doesnt know how to help him
any one can give me some idea??
beside lending him $$
he said just give him moral support
but then im poor in doing that

Answer 1

I would offer debt counseling (if he is in debt) and maybe some job seeking advice. . .but it seems he really just needs a few bucks. . . ;)

Answer 2

The more you lend him the more he will rely on you--and if the day comes that you are unable to help he may be resentful--he needs to learn how to fix his money problems--Now that doesn't mean that if you two want to go out and have fun and you don't mind footing the bill--go for it--but if its for his car payment or insurance rent etc--then no he needs to get a second job--his personal bills (as a boyfriend) are not your responsibility--as far as encouragement--sit him down and see where he is in the lack of money and what he needs to do about it and if so help him find a second job--or a first one if he isn't working--

Answer 3

All you can do is be there for him through his rough time and try helping him come up with ideas to solve the problem he has. Your his girlfriend and should always be there for him no matter what so just let him know that even if you come right out and tell him you will always be there for him and offer to help him find a way to solve the problem. Good Luck

Answer 4

Help him help himself. Don't ever give cash unless you're married. Support him in whatever way he needs to get the money together. Help him find a second job or help him sell some of his old comic books on eBay or something.

Trust me: getting cash involved in a relationship is a quick and easy way to foster resentment and a bad break up. I've seen it happen in some really great relationships.

Answer 5

yea dont lend him money. idk its hard but you have to get through it. american is gay....