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I don't just mean really serious stuff, or even problems with things like motivation etc etc.

At college every week, I saw a teacher (support worker) and we'd discuss my academic progress, as well as life generally. She wasn't an actual counsellor, but I was wondering whether it'd be possible to have anything similar with an actual counsellor.... or should I just see a mentor?

Badly worded, I know, but I don't know how else to put it.

2007-01-18 03:40:41 · 12 answers · asked by swelwynemma 7 in Health Mental Health

At uni, they have counselling as a service and I have a mentor (but I think she might be just for work, although I think she could become a great friend over time)

2007-01-18 10:49:57 · update #1

12 answers

Keep in mind that the counselor is there to work for you. Your counselor is there to address your needs. If your needs include speaking to someone weekly to discuss things that are happening in your life, no matter how big or small, then that is what your counselor must listen to and interact with you about. You should feel free to address any issue that you feel like with your counselor. Counselors are there not always to deal with "a problem" but to help you express your feelings and emotions and help you make productive choices. If you have a mentor that you can do this with, and you are satisfied with that, then that is good. If you feel you need something more, see a counselor.

2007-01-24 18:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by medicsgtb01 3 · 0 0

Hey, I think it only depends on how you feel. I am going into therapy this weekend is my first session.
I have not got an illness or any serious issues. Actually, being a psychology student myself I am very quick to ''diagnose'' myself. So,I know there are some aspects of my personality, which I am not happy with and would like to work on. Just like the lack of motivation, silly insecurities, etc.
I have decided to see a counsellor for this because I know it will help me get some perspective on how things usually are. Give me some insight into what I have to address.
Basically, I am trying it out because I believe it can be a healthy exercise for the mind.
The thing is you have to pay for it though, so that is another issue.
Personally, I do not mind the financial side of it, because I do not have serious issues and I will only probably go once a week for a month or two, so it is not going to do that much damage.
I would say, if you are prepared to spend the money on it and you feel it could help you, just go for it!You will benefit from it in the long run............xx

2007-01-18 12:21:09 · answer #2 · answered by NG 3 · 0 0

no! you should not go - often counsellors start with the assumption that something is wrong and then work their way up from there.

it seems to me that it would be better for you to seek a mentor or a life couch - these guys will help you look forwards and bring inspiration into your life.

check out some stuff by Wayne Dyer or Anthony Robbins

hope that helps

silk

2007-01-18 17:35:14 · answer #3 · answered by silk 2 · 0 0

You need to start seeing a Counsellor or Support worker,at
least 2 times a month, if you need more, than try 3 times. your Counsellor will know, how often you need to go.Pick the one you are most comfortable with. Good Luck.

2007-01-26 07:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by snowflake 2 · 0 0

A good way to build a support system around you is to reach out to friends and family, or people you admire and aspire to be like. Not only when you have a problem, but someone to go to when things are well, and you just want some guidance or encouragement to let you know that you are on the right track.

"Nothing’s better than the wind to your back, the sun in front of you, and your friends beside you."
Aaron Douglas Trimble

2007-01-18 12:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by Queen Bee 4 · 0 0

Of course you can have counselling. Some people have it just to see what counselling is all about and what it is like to grow, without having a serious problem to start with. I doubt if your university counsellor would see you without a serious problem so you would need to go private or find a counselling service. I am doing a counselling course so please feel free to contact me if you have any questions.

2007-01-25 17:44:42 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbell34 4 · 0 0

If your in school I would imagine it would be prety easy for a mentor to be set up, can you not talk to form tutors, or even your family & friends. you don't need a reason to see a counsellor if you feel you have to talk about things going on in your life etc.

Wishing you all the best.

2007-01-18 11:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Stick with your mentor at uni has it sounds like you both get on.Good Luck

2007-01-26 11:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0 0

no. there are huge waiting lists for people with genuine problems and concerns who desperately need help. Sounds to me like you just need a really good friend or two.

2007-01-26 07:58:15 · answer #9 · answered by scupper 3 · 0 0

nah dude everyone needs some one they cant rust not to say anything to anyone about what you tell them and every one just needs to let stuff out every now and then by the way don't hold back they're not there to judge you they're there to help you

2007-01-26 11:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by fairy_punk07 2 · 0 0

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