i am 14 and am the daughter or a celebrity that is big hollywood now, i have alot of trouble finding a boyfriend, why is this, because i'm rich? i have to admit that i am picky because i don't know if they like me for money or the real me!!!! please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-18 03:38:31 · 65 answers · asked by Mandi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Find a boyfriend that doesnt know your status until you get to know him better.
2007-01-18 03:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy being 14! You can only be it once and there's things you can enjoy now that you won't be able to later, so enjoy it! Don't feel like you HAVE TO HAVE a boyfriend right now. If you do start dating, it's good to be wary of some guys that may be more interested in your parent's fame, name or money because there's a lot of guys out there who don't really want a girlfriend as much as they want those other things. Encountering such scavengers goes with the business as I'm sure you know.
But not all guys are scavengers. There's some good ones out there who will like you 4 who you are, not what you have or what you're folks have. Watch and see how they treat you as a person over time. Watch how they treat others too. Everyone can play a good game for a while but reality almost always comes out in the end. So when you date people, take it slow, and watch the guys you're dating with eyes wide open. And remember to have fun because that's what dating is about - having fun, figuring out what you like and what the other person is like. Good luck!!
2007-01-18 03:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess a lot of people responded to your question offensively. Some even joked about it. Regardless if you are actually a daughter of a celebrity or some random stranger trying to see how people respond to your post... the least you can do if you want to find a date is to be yourself.
I'm sure you hear that countless of times. Usually in our teens we have no idea who are dating partner will be. Sometimes we're picky because of society's standards. Other times you may be attracted to guys you can't help being around with.
Go with your instinct. Stop worrying if you are rich. Take risks and find out if a guy likes you physically and personally. Ask a guy out! I mean it. Forget traditional roles. Forget what parents have told their daughters. For years and years... men have had to stood up and ask a girl out if he was interested even though he feared rejection.
What have you got to lose? You're 14... and I'm sure you have a long way to go but since you're young.... experience life at its fullest. Just be cautious and aware of what you do.... not to forget... what the guys may do to you as well.
Good luck and I hope this helps.
2007-01-18 03:53:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a problem, some guys will want you for your money, some won't you because you have money. Some won't talk to you because you have money. The key is not to act like a "rich girl" be who you are. Another thing you could do (but don't recommend, is go after "rich guys" that way, you are on a level playing field). You're 14, you have plenty of time to expiriment with relationships, and more than likely you will not meet "the one" until you are in college, or maybe later
2007-01-18 03:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Eric D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what kinds of guys approach you. FI you get approached by a regular- non rich person- then maybe it can be a problem but if you get approached by someone who is also rich- and it doens't work out- i don't think it's kux of the money. A lot of hollywood celebrities are in FAKE relationships just for the compromise of geting seena nd talked about for being with a certain other famous person which helps magazines & media make money out of them. You will find that in having money most of your friends and people around you are fake. only those people that are your family or have known you before having all the money are the ones who are genuine. Keep your eyes open but whoever you meet- don't constantlt remind them that you have money and they don't.
2007-01-18 03:48:39 · answer #5 · answered by mari d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being paranoid, insecure and suspicious of everyone ("I don't know if they like me for the money or the real me") makes you unattractive, sure. If they really liked you for the money, then why don't you have a boyfriend? Think about it.
Guys usually don't like going out with girls who are richer than them because: (1) they think that you are looking down on them for being poor; (2) they think that you can probably do better than them, since there are richer guys out there; (3) it makes them feel like less of a man when the women 'takes care of them' (i.e.: pays for everything; (4) people assume that rich people are snobs; and, (5) no one has a boyfriend at age 14 anyway, so what's your hurry? You have the rest of your life to find that special someone.
2007-01-18 03:54:02 · answer #6 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow there are some nasty people out there. Forget about the money for a minute. Your 14. Most teens feel like they can't find a boyfriend. It is good your picky. Be a nice to everyone, don't show off your money, & if you don't make a big deal about it, most people shouldn't make a big deal. Don't listen to all of the haters.
2007-01-18 04:04:23 · answer #7 · answered by shouldbworkn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times, we feel intimidated hanging out with anyone that has a lot more money than us because they might judge us. Another thing is that when you are the child of a star we also feel intimidated because people WILL judge us in everything (the paparazzi and all). You will find someone out there for you. If they just want you for your money than you can sometimes tell by how they act. They will ask you for things and to go places where they couldnt go without your help.I think those kind of people are just shallow and don't deserve a spouse. If you really want a good boyfriend, try to find someone who will be kind to you and also try to be there for you whenever you are in need. Those are the people that make good relationships.
2007-01-18 03:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its because of that many guys may think you are out of their league. I have dated rich and not so rich girls and the thing is that they are friendly and open. If you make yourself unapproachable then the boys will stay away. Why don't you go up to some and start talking to them. Introduce yourself and say "hi". Anyway I think you may be too young to be dating anyway but I didn't listen too when I was your age. Just be VERY SAFE out there. Take care and good luck.
2007-01-18 03:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by cowboybronco01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if they know your famous then your cover is blow. You have to find someone who doesn't know who you are at all. Its hard having lots of money in ways I guess. Well.......I'll never know. But just make sure you don't brag about it and stuff because that is very wrong. And find a guy that doesn't know that your the daughter of a rich person.
2007-01-18 03:49:17 · answer #10 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you worked on worrying about your own personality and forgot about what it is your father or mother do for a living, you could handle friendships in a totally different way. Even if you were to find out that somebody decided to approach you for an intro to your parent, you would have the benefit of knowing that you have solid 'people skills' which will take you through life and not have to worry about your parents notoriety or money being your only means of starting friendships...
2007-01-18 03:43:32 · answer #11 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋