I have a girlfrinend whom before I ever told her thatI loved her I had her email password so I was mornitoring her mailings. There is a boy she was calling sweetie so I printed the mails. How do I tell her or ask her if she loved the guy.
Please Help me how I will strike the conversation
2007-01-18 03:29:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why were you monitoring her mails? If you do tell her then she will know what you have done. She will know you somehow got her password and ask you why and also tell you that mails are private and you have violated her privacy. What do you think she will do then? No, tell her nothing and let the matter drop. Shat does it matter that she sent mails to another guy if she is with you or likes you now rather than the other guy? Why raise a dead horse? Forget it and just let the past stay buried.
2007-01-18 03:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK, for one, you invaded her privacy. And to me, for no good reason. Big deal, she called someone sweetie. I call all my friends guy and girl, sweetie. In the emails did she say anything about loving this guy? If not, you need to get over it! Throw the papers away and leave it at that! You need trust in a relationship...and you obviously don't trust her or you wouldn't have done what you did! Maybe you are the one doing things you're not supposed to. Usually guilty people point fingers at others instead of at themselves!
IF you really do love this girl, stop trying to find ways NOT to trust her!
You got yourself into something you may not be able to fix, but Good Luck!
2007-01-18 03:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by PrincessAli'sMom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have some reason to not trust her before you started monitoring her emails?? If I was her, I'd get upset for someone checking my emails.. Have you done something you shouldn't have and you are using her emails to somehow get back at her because the guilt of what you've done is eating at you?? Just a thought..
2007-01-18 03:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's wrong of you to do no matter what you might have discovered. To me I think it's just like opening someone elses mail. And that is a federal offense. I think you should stop it now and figure some other way to see if she's cheating.
2007-01-18 03:34:02 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you supposed not nosy of her business. It is not right. She will dump you for nosy her emails. Now if you want to keep her, throw the prints and keep her. Because if you want to tell her about the "sweetie thing". You will lose her for sure.
2007-01-18 03:33:25 · answer #5 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally violated that woman. If you tell her that you were monitoring her emails, she may kick your a$$ then leave you. You will break that trust in a matter of seconds.
Shame on you for doing that to her. You are wrong.
2007-01-18 03:33:15 · answer #6 · answered by Chrissie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u gots some explaing to do on this one man, u can just go int o ur gf email and look through her emails, she trusted u with her password n u just go n look into it, ur only suppose to do that if u have suspicions that shes cheating on u. ( n thats still a maybe)
2007-01-18 03:37:11 · answer #7 · answered by ~*precious*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look thats not a good thing to do, but you know you have done wrong, you should go talk to her and be honest with her, she could be mad for the first few days, and if that happens just let her have sometime to herself, but tell her why you did it and say your really sorry. Good Luck
2007-01-18 03:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucy, you got some 'splainin to do! You blew it already. Dont you know you have to trust people until they give you a reason to not trust them. She is gonna be p*ssed off. I think she will break up with you!
2007-01-18 03:32:20 · answer #9 · answered by cici 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it!
Burn the paper emails and never bring it up in conversation that you spyed on her communications. Jealousy is stupid.
2007-01-18 03:40:50 · answer #10 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋