I and my girlfriend had an argument today and she told me that she is scared since i love her so much and this bounds her privacy. Although she is very loyal and faitfull and i am sure nothing is going wrong with her.
Could this be true? By the way what is this about '' My privacy'' for a woman?
2007-01-18 03:25:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, it is scary!! It is scary because he moves so fast and I don't know him well enough yet and I haven't spent enough time in the relationship yet to know what I want. Not sure about the privacy issues... maybe if you are spending a lot of time at her place, you are finding out some things that she finds embarrassing. It can be embarrassing when a relationship is new, just someone else seeing you doing personal things.
2007-01-18 03:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by L T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound to me like she has a commitment phobia. She should not be complainting about being loved too much. Any ways how much is too much in a relationship the best thing that couls happen is to finally find out that your partner is deeply in love with you. How great is that? About her privacy I think she might be hiddindg something from you. It sounds like she does not love you as much as you do. Sorry to say that but girls who care about their loved one do not really care about hid ding things from them. If they want privacy then they might just have something to hide. I talk from experience. Just talk to her about it without arguments. If she gets very defensive and argumental thatn you should just move on because she cares about her so called privacy more thatn she cares about making thing right with you.
2007-01-18 11:37:55 · answer #2 · answered by ellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it depends on a lot of things, especially how much she cares about you. If you really care about someone and are attracted to them, you won't mind it as much, and may even enjoy all the attention.
However, if you have doubts about that person and the relationship, then it may scare you or make you feel uncomfortable.
Giving the other person a little bit more room is always good, anyways.
2007-01-18 11:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Sydney Bristow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. at times i find it scary other times i find it comforting my bf can love me so much. ive not had the best relationships in the past and finally one comes along that is good and u appreciate it sooo much more. but her "privacy" could also be considered her free time. just dont have to spend every second with her. if she wants to read, hang out iwth friends, etc. dont make a fuss about it. let her have her time and she will let u have urs too
2007-01-18 11:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by jenivive 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE HER....but as u need ur space so does she...a social life also demands friends...let her hv some time with them...private life of a lady still revolves around her hubby only...just she likes to share a few moments with her frnds....give her space...and then see how the relation blooms more...all the best
2007-01-18 11:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by crystal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im in the same situation we love eachother and there is a lot of trust but sometime i just need my space. You might be getting clingy, that's not good. give her some freee time let her go out with her friends; you do the same .
2007-01-18 11:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by Andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women, just like men, need to have some space. often relationships can go sour when both partners aren't getting any individual time away from each other. maybe she feels like you're interfering with her "me" time. let her spend a couple days a week doing things that don't involve you, you can each have a girls and boys night out.
2007-01-18 11:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might feel smuthered. What she might mean by "my privacy " is maybe she wants to have time for herself. OR time with her friends...like a girls night out sort of thing. It doesn't mean she does'nt love you back or something else is going on. Sometimes we want to have time for ourselves.
2007-01-18 11:31:01 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she means she is scared of you losing her
maybe she wanted to tell you something that she have done something wrong in the past or is scared coz she thinks you will leave her coz of her privacy.
2007-01-18 11:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by sweetgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is entitled to their own space.Maybe you are becoming obsessive.Thats scarey.
2007-01-18 11:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋