What is the average time a guy could last in bed.?

Question

I have had 5 sex partners in 14 years and none have ever been able to last more than 10 min max sometimes way less than that, well i had sex this weekend and my mate last hours at a time (2 1/2 hours) and can easly get it back to do it agian, this is all new to me. what is the average time is this normal.

and how does a girl that has had this type of sex ever go back to an average time, I am worried about this,

Answer 1

It is unfortunate for you that you had to endure those "premys" LMAO. So many women have that exact same problem.
But, what you experienced with your current mate isn't at all uncommon for some of us. I, truthfully, have went an entire 4hrs before exerting. I would have to say for me, that an average time would be about 1 to 1.5 hrs. This is without the influence of drugs(weed, cocaine, etc) or prescriptions(viagra, cialis, etc). It is simply mental. You can go as long as you allow yourself to. Anticipation and nervousness can shorten the length of time for activity. This, I suspect, is the problem of the "average" man.

Answer 2

I think it depends on the person. There is alot of different things you can do so it will last longer. The main thing you both need to be relaxed and just enjoy each other. I no the first time it only lasted about 15 min I was disappointed. Like what was that!! But according to how in to each other you are it can last 40 minutes or so and be very enjoyable.

Answer 3

My guess is that he was on something.

Most guys don't last more than 15 minutes, there are times however, usually while on some type of stimulant when it can last a very long time.

I would check to see if your new guy was using viagra or maybe snorting cocaine. It may be that he just has great control and wanted to show you a good time. 2 hours is a long time though and usually something else is involved.

Answer 4

fifteen is about 5 minutes longer that average on the first go. If it's not enough wait twenty minutes and go again. Then you're good for about an hour (on average)

Answer 5

It depends on how concentrated he can be...ya if he wants to forget about you n' enjoy it, then he'll be done quick!
Oh and the whole girl being on top and lasting longer for the guy thing....bogus...my guy has a harder time NOT finishing if I'm on top...
He lasts no less than 1 hour all the time....the more you do it the more tolerance he can have to hold it :)
Way to go girlie! 2.5 hours is amazing :)!!!

Answer 6

i think 15 minutes is max, but if you are on top some and different positions it can last alot longer. i would say 2 and a half hours is not normal at all

Answer 7

2 1/2 hours?????? Christ, 10 minutes is a marathon in my book. I would like to last longer, but I can't at the moment. I know there are techniques for delaying ejaculation, I need to learn them.

Answer 8

I've had it for 2 hours....but that was in my youth years. Depends on the guy, if its only 10 mins savor it!

Answer 9

The best solution is to gain control over it. As someone already said, stop when you're getting there and relax. Pay more attention to pleasuring your mate--orally, perhaps--and avoid rubbing your penis up against anything while doing so. It will take work on your part and patience on both parts. Learn here http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?DMPc

As a last resort, some antidepressants curb sexual functioning with the intention of learning the pleasure of restraint after which you could taper off them. Here's your goal: the longer you can delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be. So it isn't just a matter of satisfying your mate. This is the main reason some claim stoned sex is better, unlike drunk sex which can leave you unable to perform (brewer's droop). You enjoy exploring each other longer. And remember, oral isn't just one place. It's all over, paying particular attention to kissing, and TALK about what each of you like. Strange how people don't talk about sex when they're the ones doing it.

Answer 10

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