If he asked you to do things you never thought about would you do them to please him and then be more open about things he could do to you but you were too afraid to ask because of the way society and stereotypes are now today?
2007-01-18 02:57:52 · 24 answers · asked by Some Random Guy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As long as its not a threesome or involving animals then im game. Im married so new sexual ideas and fantasies keep me and my husband happy, healthy and excited to see what we'll come up with next!
2007-01-18 03:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by marinewife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly tell you haven't thought about these acts he asking of you, experimentation is good for every relationship but it has to be with two willing partners not just to please someone as you if you try them and hate them but he loves it then he will ask again and possibly not understand that you don't.
Talking about sexual boundaries is a must, tell him what you are comfortable with and what you aren't. Ask him to do the same.
If you do try them you never know you might love experimenting but you should only do what you feel comfortable with, you can try and you can always say stop if you feel uneasy and if he is worth any salt he will not push you and understand.
Good luck
2007-01-18 11:06:47 · answer #2 · answered by angelrose0105 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that that is for married people. Once you are married I think that you should try anything your partner asks of you atleast once, just to say that you tried. There should be no limits within a marriage. But, relationships are not an official commitment- I mean I had a guy who I thought was going to be my husband, and there I was trying things for him, and in the end- he's no where to be found. So, save it for marriage. If you aren't married the you are not obligated to do anything!
2007-01-18 11:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what things exactly do you mean? fetishes? i suggest you give him one chance at everything he wants. If both of you think it's good, you can continue - otherwise you can come to a mutual agreement as to not do that anymore.
Don't put into consideration any religious or societal stereotypes here! Just enjoy the sexual urges as much as you can. What else are human beings born for, after all ;-)
2007-01-18 11:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope not but My wife is a bit closed mineded. I am a firm believer in compromise in the bedroom. There are things I would like and she won't do them. I am trying to get her to realize that if I want it all the time and she never wants it then we should meet somewhere in the middle.
2007-01-18 11:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Richard Bricker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, there are lots of sick men in this world and frankly if you feel uncomfortable, your body or conscious is telling something and you should listen. Some men always used "If you love me you'll prove it", Girl just do things you feel comfortable with and if he's not satisfy then maybe you should fine someone else. you don't need a weirdo.
2007-01-18 11:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by scubalee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pay society and the rest of the world NO attention if I choose to please my man and he does give some tips then I will do so. If he wants me to be open with him I will as I am now.
2007-01-18 11:02:41 · answer #7 · answered by FASHION*DIVA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey what you do in the bedroom is between you and your man. If he wants you to try new things, do it. You might find a lot of pleasure in it . If it makes you uncomfortable tell him. Sex is very good for you and you should be willing to try different things to keep your sex life alive and interesting.
2007-01-18 11:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by jlynncogbill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me just say this, "what u won't do someone else will", and they will do it so good that your man may not come back to you. so i say this...if this is your man that u love and want to make happy and keep him then why not. as long as u do what ever it is with him and only him. remember this is your husband or your man that u love and want to make happy and keep him happy, its all apart of sex and thats what makes it special to u as where it's not just sex, it's love making. think about it if the shoe was on the other foot u would want your mate to please u and make u feel good so why not do it for them. remember what u won't do someone else will and they will do it with no problem at all doing it.
2007-01-18 11:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good woman like mine does anything! Including letting me use the back door to get into her house! She loves it! And I love her for being open minded.
My point is if your woman does not want to please you and do what you like to do then you need to move on and find a good girl that does what you want. You have to find your match to be happy!
2007-01-18 11:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Knowitall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋