I have a female friend whom I have been chatting with for 8 years. We also know one another in person and get together occasionally. We have never dated one another and are completely platonic. I am 36 and she is 24.
We have a lot in common & are also complete opposites in some other ways. We tell one another about everything about our lives, our fears, desires, secrets, lovelife, etc. We can be the best of friends, as well as bitter enemies, sometimes not speaking to one another for months. Sometimes, we feel like we want to kill one another, figuratively speaking, but always end up forgiving each other and being close again.
She is the kind of person who is always trying to help me, wants to see me happy, never gives up on me, is always encouraging me, etc. Anytime we've talked about dating one another, she says I am too old and we both believe that we're aren't one another's type.
Are we just great friends or are we a couple who is in denial that we should be a couple?
2007-01-18 02:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't feel like I am in love with her, and though she is attractive, I am not sexually attracted to her. She feels the same way.
On the other hand she is the first thing I think of when I wake up everyday. She must think of me often too, because she is always inviting me to do things with her.
I don't know what is happening here!
2007-01-18 02:33:47 · update #1
We have been growing a lot closer recently.
2007-01-18 02:34:37 · update #2
Sounds corny, I know, but I can't help thinking of the TV show Friends when it comes to the two us... wondering if we are like Ross & Rachael or Chandler & Monica waiting to happen.
2007-01-18 02:38:25 · update #3
Both of you need to cut it out, you both in reality do want each other. Regardless of what both of you say. Just hook up already for the love of god.
2007-01-18 02:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her roofies, and when she wakes up tell her what a wild lay she was! If she's afraid to make the first move then that should get her past the nerves stage!
Let me know how it goes!
2007-01-18 05:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are very good friends ... brother and sister like. Only each of you know if you are in denial.
2007-01-18 02:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
age shouldn't be a factor.. sounds like this could work out... I hope someday you will have her open up her eyes and realize that she should be with you.........
2007-01-18 02:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are like a gay friend to her. She likes you alot but not interested in you
2007-01-18 02:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You two are friends...thats it.
2007-01-18 02:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋