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2007-01-18 02:28:16 · 29 answers · asked by sheeb 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is selfish. Lots of men like that. Its give and take and if they wont give, I wouldnt give either.
There are lots of men who will kiss and hug you. Ask your husband if its ok if you find one of them to take care of that need.
2007-01-18 02:30:57 · answer #1 · answered by cici 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find a good time to talk to him about it, and let him know that you do enjoy having sex with him and even try to do the things he likes.... but that there is also some other things you need and will love for him to do, to make the experience more enjoyable for both of you, if he loves and cares about you he will do what you need, probably he just does not realize he stop doing it and how important is for you that he involve romance and not just making sex, I say, talk about it nicely and he will get your point!! I agree this has to be a give and take experience!!! So if you don't like the way he makes love to you, let him know before you stop doing it at all!!
Good Luck and Hope you have a very romantic and passionate sex life pretty soon!!
2007-01-18 02:38:58 · answer #2 · answered by Raquel_02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but your husband is a selfish person. What he may not appreciate is, giving only makes taking that much better. There's nothing like taking the time to satisfy a woman and pleasure her because she can be an infinitely better giver if she's well-pleased.
You can check some of my questions I've asked on here or email/IM me about this. Good luck :-)
2007-01-18 02:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by houstonian352000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow sounds like my girlfriend. Well sometimes you get into a rut. I know it sucks not getting anything like that but here is the thing. You have to find something that drives him wild. Something different that spices it up. For instance ask him if there is anything sexually that he fantasizes about. If he says you just tell him your serious and you would like to fulfill any of his sexual desires that he may have. Some guys like it rough where other guys like to be able to utilize more of your body during sexual intercourse. I'm not going to say where and what but I know girls are not really into that stuff but it drives guys wild. Its not bad at all either. Just find something that drives him wild like a fetish or a fantasy and after you'll be getting all of the kissing or hugging you could ever ask for. He'll be at the mercy of you wanting you to love him forever. Trust me. Spice it up.
I mean I imagine the majority of these answers are going to be bad mouthing your husband and you don't want that. I only try to give a solution not a reason for you to question your marriage. Because in life love is what we all look for and desire. It comes easy to few but most of us have to work at it!
2007-01-18 02:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Some Random Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any relationship sexual or other wise is all about give and take. If I were you I would sit down with him and explain that if he can not satisfy your needs what ever they may be then you will not be able to satisfy his and stick to this. Once he figures out you are serious he will change his ways. All women know men can not go but so long without sexual contact it shouldn't take him long to give, and if he doesn't give then my advise to you is to leave the relationship so you can find someone who you can satisfy and who can satisfy you!! Good luck you have my best wishes :)
2007-01-18 02:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by myfamilyiseverything 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband that the only way you get turned on is when he hugs and kisses you and then you get reallly hot. That should change his perspective. If not, cut him off 'til he gets with the program.
2007-01-18 02:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is inherently selfish... sex is more than an orgasm... It's too bad you didn't find out about his attitude before you were married. Open honest communication will get you through this... talk to him... It may be about control issues for him... couples counselling may be in order... if he won't go you need to... before long his attitude will affect your self-worth.
2007-01-18 02:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by alex b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you need kissing and hugging if he wants sex. Ladies learn to put your foot down, guys will jump through hoops for sex we just need to know where the hoops are.
2007-01-18 02:33:02 · answer #9 · answered by simsad31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a serious talk with him and try to uncover the reasons why he won't kiss or hug you.
2007-01-18 02:31:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋