Tough question people should i forgive my fiance for this?
okay yesterday i got a lottery ticket and won $500 okay i dropped it on the way to the store me and my fiance and his friend were walking and looking for it i was upset and gave up after an hour so later on that night i found out my fiance's friend had it the whole time and told my fiance to cash it in he did but didn't take any money his friend did he says he is sorry and it won't happen again but should i forgive him and leave it in the past or leave him for someone else?
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22 hours ago
his friend only took 19 and dave my fiance had none he said he didn't feel right but he still cashed in the ticket so what should i do?
21 hours ago
oh my fiances friend is not even my friend at all and never was
2007-01-18 02:14:03 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
THis seems like he chose his friend over you. What kind of fiance is that? That sure says alot about his integrity! You are his FIANCE for Christ sake- I would have expected my fiance to bash him in his head if he had my ticket all along. ANd then to help him cash it in is very crazy! Does he love his friend more than he love you?- THats how it seems. Is this a true story? Because I couldnt see someone's fiance doing something like this! I dont understand, did they give you the money in the end? Even if he did only take $19, what kind of fiance would let his friend get over on his wife to be? This is a sticky situation
2007-01-18 02:21:00 · answer #1 · answered by superbad~honeydip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay I'm confuse if its 500 then why does his friend only have 19? I think he your fiance should be forgiven, but I doubt you can trust him again. So you might want to rethink your relationship. If you're not married yet and he goes behind your back and does that imagine what will happen when you're married. A good honest fiance would have told you the truth and dumped that kind of friend. It seems like he takes his friends over you. To me forgive him and move on to someone else.
2007-01-18 10:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by Mina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They were stealing from you. If your fiance is going to be doing something like this what else would he think was ok to do if you got married to him. Get the money and dump him. He should have told you that his friend had the ticket. I guess this shows that he cares more about his friends than you.
2007-01-18 10:19:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would re-think your fiance'. Honestly how can someone you love and that loves you see you so upset and know that they can do something about it and they don't. He sold you out. I don't care if his friend had a lot to do with it. Where does his loyalty lie and how can you say I do when you don't know if you can count on him for today much less the rest of your lives. I'm sorry but marriage is hard and it's worth a second think if I was you.
2007-01-18 10:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by nm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's messed up!!!! If your fiance was "really your fiance" then he should of told his friend "look dude that is my girl's ticket, I will cash it but I will give the money to her" I don't know your situation as far as how well your relationship is. But if you choose to forgive him, then remember that the lord watches everything everyone does and he will be punished later someway or another. Keep your head up girl! GoodLuck!
2007-01-18 10:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetheart a relationship is build ed up on trust & I really don't think your fiance was thinking about you at the time he & his friend cashed in on the ticket. Good luck marring this guy.
2007-01-18 10:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by omegarussell42 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him he is a jerk. He'll do more. Ever wonder that he is only after your money? How can you be so sure that he did not take part of the money? Would you believe that lie? His loyalty lies in his friends and not yours. Besides he is only your fiance now and he is not being honest about money matters what more if he is your husband.
2007-01-18 10:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Princess Shai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what your fiance did was very very bad because no matter how bad he feels he still stole from you and is something very bad so talk to him and tell that its is best that you to maybe spend sometime apart so you and him can ge tthings in order especially if he says that he didnt feel right doing it he still did and just because his friend told him to.... it is not about leaving him for someone else is seeing if your love can get pass this and for him to think what is more important a friend that would take from you and make lie to you or each other...
Good luck, hope all works out
2007-01-18 10:24:50 · answer #8 · answered by crazed_gurl28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is your fiance he will screw up many many more times, it looks like it was a joke gone bad, at least they told you they found it , his friend legally did not have to.
let it be the past, just make him feel sorry for it a couple of days, and move on, do you really feel that leaving him is worth the 500.
2007-01-18 10:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by boominz28 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to give you the money and that he is stealling from you and make up a story how you called lottery officals and they said that if you could prove you bought the ticket, and you could prove it, that they would sue him.
2007-01-18 10:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by simsad31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋