But yet she is always all over him. What should I do? I need some advice.
2007-01-18 02:07:49 · 17 answers · asked by Lil' mel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yesterday I talked to him and ashed him again if he was going out with his ex. he asured me that he is not going out with her. I wanted to believe him so bad, but I kindof doubted a little. Then he asked me what he could do to prove to me that he is not going out with her. He asked me if I wanted for him to kiss me, I told him no. But in reality I really wanted him to. I said no because I didn't want to sound desperate. Did I make the right choice
? Please help!!!!
2007-01-26 02:01:58 · update #1
You don't say whether he finished with her or she finished with him...if he finished with her then obviously she's playing to try & get him back...or she could just be trying to make you jealous
If she finished with him then she's either trying to get him back...trying to just wind him up or trying to make you jealous...it's not always easy to tell what peoples motives are I'm afraid.
All relationships come with a bit of a risk to begin with...you need to ask yourself whether going out with this guy is going to mean that his ex is always around, will he have the balls to tell her to sling her hook & keep away from you both, if not, can you live with that & will he be prepared to build in you the trust that nothing is going on between him & his ex? If he's doing nothing to stop her behaviour toward him then I'd give him a wide birth if I were you.....you really don't need all the stupid games & hassle...Good luck Sweetheart & don't allow people to mess with your heart or your head. ♥
2007-01-18 02:23:21 · answer #1 · answered by Funky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience, If you suspect a guy is doing something, he ususally is, a womans intuition is almost always right. Being friends with an ex is never a good idea, i've tried in the past and always end right back up where we started. I would never trust a guy to be friends with his ex. If he says he isn't and you really believe him then go for it, but if you have any doubt i'd say get out now before you're in a relationship with him and he then tells you he's going back to his ex.
2007-01-18 10:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by curiousgeorge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Female intuition is a wonderful thing and that is all that I have to say on that matter. On another note if you are already doubting the things that he says now how do you think a relationship will work out?
2007-01-18 10:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to start dating him, then you need to ensure she's not all over him because that is inappropriate. Does he like you too? You should probably find out and trust him until you have reason to believe otherwise. If he lies to you even once about it, drop him and don't look back.
2007-01-18 10:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really hard sometime to believe and not believing, specially when your inlove with your guy.Its hard tho not to think some negative to your lover.
But if you are not ease about going out with his ex, I think you better talk with your man, so that you will know where you stand.
If she all over him and the guy doesnt do anything at all infront of you, Its pretty obvious that they still together, and he was scruing you.
2007-01-26 08:04:18 · answer #5 · answered by believeme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he isn’t stopping her from giving the impression they are together, but still tries to say they aren’t together he is just interested in some two timing fun.
2007-01-18 10:17:26 · answer #6 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Even if you stayed in a relationship with him you'll never trust him and trust plays a major part in a relationship.
2007-01-26 06:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his *ss; he should be true to you like I am with my gal Melrose. You need to respect the one you are with and forget about all others. This is very easy for me because my gal Melrose is the sexiest b*itch you'll ever see. She even makes homemade movies for me to watch when we cannot be together.
2007-01-18 10:47:47 · answer #8 · answered by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I found out my man, ilpinman, was back with his ex I would ruin his life, but he wouldn't do that to me because he loves me too much and I give him the hottest squirts!!!
When he got with me he said he's never had such a hot b*tch!!! ;)
2007-01-18 10:15:13 · answer #9 · answered by CURVY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
find out ask friends i suggest u dont fall for him if he still thinking bout his ex
2007-01-26 00:37:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋